Final Minor's Counsel word

[TwoKidsplus1]

My final word on Monor's Counsel and the weird replies from this fourm
You’re all running around posting like chickens with your heads cut off!

Your all Forgetting the big picture facts of life, if you continue treating your children with a dictator, power trip attitude and do not give them any freedom of choice where they want to live using a Monor's Counsel to do your dirty work you’re going to get the same treatment from your children went you hit your senior’s years!
These same kids as adults will pay you back in spades sticking you in nursing homes eating tapioca pudding watching Lucy!
You’ll all be complaining at your children for putting you there for 20 to 30 years, but you have no rights under the law.
What comes around goes around, my teens have to go to therapy for years because of the Ex's, lies, nastiness and other mental problems
But later in life remember it only takes two signatures from blood relatives (the teens)to put the Ex away, that’s the law

 

[Zephyr]

are you effing off your rocker?.....really, your big picture has NOTHING to do with your LEGAL picture

 

[Just Blue]

My final word on Monor's Counsel and the weird replies from this fourm
You’re all running around posting like chickens with your heads cut off!

Your all Forgetting the big picture facts of life, if you continue treating your children with a dictator, power trip attitude and do not give them any freedom of choice where they want to live using a Monor's Counsel to do your dirty work you’re going to get the same treatment from your children went you hit your senior’s years!
These same kids as adults will pay you back in spades sticking you in nursing homes eating tapioca pudding watching Lucy!
You’ll all be complaining at your children for putting you there for 20 to 30 years, but you have no rights under the law.
What comes around goes around, my teens have to go to therapy for years because of the Ex's, lies, nastiness and other mental problems
But later in life remember it only takes two signatures from blood relatives (the teens)to put the Ex away, that’s the law

You are an idiot. It takes ONE signature to put someone away...A JUDGE! And that won't happen unless a MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL offers testimony to the court deeming the parent unfit to care for themselves.

 

[TheGeekess]

As a child, I did not have any right to dictate where my parents wanted me to live. But they are still my parents and I love them, though I think some things could have been done differently . When they decide to go to a home, they will choose where they want to live, just as I chose to move 1.5hrs away from where they currently live.


And sounds like you could do with some weekly therapy, too. You need a clue by four.

 

[proud_parent]

My final word on Monor's Counsel and the weird replies from this fourm
You’re all running around posting like chickens with your heads cut off!

Your all Forgetting the big picture facts of life, if you continue treating your children with a dictator, power trip attitude and do not give them any freedom of choice where they want to live using a Monor's Counsel to do your dirty work you’re going to get the same treatment from your children went you hit your senior’s years!
These same kids as adults will pay you back in spades sticking you in nursing homes eating tapioca pudding watching Lucy!
You’ll all be complaining at your children for putting you there for 20 to 30 years, but you have no rights under the law.
What comes around goes around, my teens have to go to therapy for years because of the Ex's, lies, nastiness and other mental problems
But later in life remember it only takes two signatures from blood relatives (the teens)to put the Ex away, that’s the law

And if you as a parent fail to exercise appropriate authority when your child is a minor, you should not be shocked to live out your golden years working that extra shift as a greeter at Wal-Mart so that you can keep up payments on your third mortgage and also put food on the table for you and your high-school dropout, unemployed, state-assisted adult child who insisted on moving back in with you, her passel of kids (born to different fathers) all in tow.

Yep. Karma's a beyotch.

 

[mommyof4]

...and really, have you sought treatment for your addiction to smilies? I've heard there are some very effective, cutting edge therapies available now to help you with your problem.

You're missing the huge, stomping on your head fact that IF you had made better decisions about with whom to concieve a child and IF you had better handled the entire situation, the children wouldn't NEED intervention from a minor's counsel to begin with. The kids aren't going to need therapy to solely deal with their issues with Dad. The will need therapy to deal with those issues PLUS the issues YOU caused by putting them in this situation to begin with.

It takes two to make a child (unless you are the second coming of the Virgin Mary, and somehow, I doubt that).

So Dad is a loser and you are a lousy parent. That IS what you are saying.

 

[fairisfair]

what did I miss?? who in the he11 is this guy?????

 

[mommyof4]

The OP is mad because the MC isn't following the OP's demands. That's all. Nothing more, nothing less.

 

[LdiJ]

The OP does make a valid point though. We have far more years of an adult relationship with our children than we do of a childhood one. Therefore there is some merit at looking at things long term, and making sure that we are not unreasonably denying our children things that they are reasonable to want.

We don't want them seeing age 18 as freedom from mom or dad day.

That doesn't make the OP any less wrong for being angry that the MC isn't doing what the OP wants...but its still a valid point.

 

[summerdawn]

Hey, I happen to like tapioca pudding!

 

[tanja53]

The OP does make a valid point though. We have far more years of an adult relationship with our children than we do of a childhood one. Therefore there is some merit at looking at things long term, and making sure that we are not unreasonably denying our children things that they are reasonable to want.

We don't want them seeing age 18 as freedom from mom or dad day.

That doesn't make the OP any less wrong for being angry that the MC isn't doing what the OP wants...but its still a valid point.

I agree what you are saying to a 100 %.
It is so easy to control kids when they are under 18 years of age.
But if a parent /guardian goes to far it can back fire.
Kids do become adults.

And what is for the best intrest of a child might not be the best for the child.
I wouldnt like to be that parent when the kid turns 18 and says"See ya".
That is not what most parents want.

I was a child and there were decsions made about me "for the bestintrest of a child".
I guess what some of them I have never /ever forgotten.
As an adult I have had these people being wondering why I dont want to have anything to do with them.

So yes some decsions adults make are wrong.
Sad but true.

 

[Humusluvr]

Hey, I happen to like tapioca pudding!

ME TOO!!!

And just for fun, I will use every single smiley too!











wow, what a rollercoaster of emotion I just had there!