What is the name of your state? WI
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=334426
ok, so I spoke with the police dept- they said I do not need to travel all the way to Door County, that I can just call them and do it over the phone- which I really don't understand because they wouldn't make a report when I was standing there. They said when it's a difference of interpretation- which is what he is saying- then they won't even do a report.
Further update- Hubby and I went on vacation this weekend- been planned for 3 months based on the visitation schedule that had been in place. From our rented cabin 4.5 hours away I called son in Friday night at 6:30 like I call every night. Ex of course will never answer the phone when I call, I must always leave a message saying "have son call me" then about 15-20 minutes later he will have son call back (this is the routine every single time I call)- so son called back and said he was on his way to see me- I was flabbergasted. I had had no contact- no communication whatsoever from ex all week. So I told son to let me talk to dad.
Dad gets on the phone very angrily asking why I am not going to be at the swap(they are already over halfway there) I try to explain and once again he just blusters over me. So after 4 minutes of not being able to get anything said I just hang up.
I have all the stuff for my motion just about done- will be filing next monday- he will probably deny the upcoming weekend
Questions:
1. Will me not having son this past weekend hurt my motion to the court?
2. I am filing for Modification for placement - with the understanding that that request has a slim chance of actually being granted- what is the exact wording I need to use for if the judge does not see grounds to change placement then he would at least clarify the order?
3. I have a proposed parenting plan, basically what I would like to see happened if placement is not changed- do I include this with my initial filing of the motion or do I wait for the judge to deny the mod and then file it with a motion for clarification?
4. I don't know if I said this in any of the earlier posts- but at the end of August I had supplied him with a calendar for the upcoming 12 month period (just as I had done last year). With this calendar I included a letter stating if he didn't agree with the schedule to please respond in writing by september 1, with alternate dates etc.otherwise the schedule would stand and be enforceable. He never responded in writing- said his lawyer said he didn't have to, he just threw the calendar into my car saying it was wrong and everything would have to change. Because he was being so irrational and a conversation was not able to be had, I told him to get out of my car- he was leaning in the window and I left....now by him not properly responding- or even communicating what he thought the schedule should- how does that affect the situation? does it help me in court? hurt me in court?
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=334426
ok, so I spoke with the police dept- they said I do not need to travel all the way to Door County, that I can just call them and do it over the phone- which I really don't understand because they wouldn't make a report when I was standing there. They said when it's a difference of interpretation- which is what he is saying- then they won't even do a report.
Further update- Hubby and I went on vacation this weekend- been planned for 3 months based on the visitation schedule that had been in place. From our rented cabin 4.5 hours away I called son in Friday night at 6:30 like I call every night. Ex of course will never answer the phone when I call, I must always leave a message saying "have son call me" then about 15-20 minutes later he will have son call back (this is the routine every single time I call)- so son called back and said he was on his way to see me- I was flabbergasted. I had had no contact- no communication whatsoever from ex all week. So I told son to let me talk to dad.
Dad gets on the phone very angrily asking why I am not going to be at the swap(they are already over halfway there) I try to explain and once again he just blusters over me. So after 4 minutes of not being able to get anything said I just hang up.
I have all the stuff for my motion just about done- will be filing next monday- he will probably deny the upcoming weekend
Questions:
1. Will me not having son this past weekend hurt my motion to the court?
2. I am filing for Modification for placement - with the understanding that that request has a slim chance of actually being granted- what is the exact wording I need to use for if the judge does not see grounds to change placement then he would at least clarify the order?
3. I have a proposed parenting plan, basically what I would like to see happened if placement is not changed- do I include this with my initial filing of the motion or do I wait for the judge to deny the mod and then file it with a motion for clarification?
4. I don't know if I said this in any of the earlier posts- but at the end of August I had supplied him with a calendar for the upcoming 12 month period (just as I had done last year). With this calendar I included a letter stating if he didn't agree with the schedule to please respond in writing by september 1, with alternate dates etc.otherwise the schedule would stand and be enforceable. He never responded in writing- said his lawyer said he didn't have to, he just threw the calendar into my car saying it was wrong and everything would have to change. Because he was being so irrational and a conversation was not able to be had, I told him to get out of my car- he was leaning in the window and I left....now by him not properly responding- or even communicating what he thought the schedule should- how does that affect the situation? does it help me in court? hurt me in court?
