HELP ...living arrangements

[rmet4nzkx]

Are you saying she should lie? How don't they know when her brother goes over to his father's house, she goes to our house and they call or go over to her bio mom's house. We don't say anything negative....Read....we listen and she complains....we can NOT change her mother....she feels compelled to talk to someone.

Her friends and us...Her friends knows she is married to another man...some of them even know all three fathers because all her freinds participate with us also.

Please....you are asking a teen to lie...what good advise you have.

Thanks but NO thanks!

So, sew buttons on your underwear!

 

[clomicka]

Like I said "it seems here I hit a sore spot"

So, sew buttons on your underwear!

If the shoe fits rmet4nzkx; wear it... Since you seem to be like bio mom, don't comment..

Your advise is so one sided.....You do NOT have any intentions on helping anyone feel good except "moms like you"

 

[rmet4nzkx]

I see how you are...expecting the fathers to pay and the child to suffer...

Nice mom you are.

My advice is because you are obviously disturbed and cannot follow logic, counseling will help you deal with reality in a more consistant manner. Calling me names does nothing to help present your case, but it does raise a red flag as to your competency to interact with the child in question.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Her bio mom is the same mom who allowed her daughter to be molested by her friend's husband and then had her then boyfriend on the stand tell everyone "that bio mom didn't believe the guy did it". And by the way, the guy was put away.

So stop trying to protect "all mothers" here.... Especially when you have no idea what you are talking about. Bio mom is walking a fine line and is on watch by DCF (Dept children & Families)...

I could write 10 pages of crap...but won't

Please don't contribute your comments anymore..

Well at least you admit you are full of cr@p, and that what you post here is cr@p. You are correct, we don't need you posting cr@p here on this forum. Guess what, DCFS will also recognize it as CR@P.
Please make an appointment to be evaluated by a psychiatrist Monday morning.

 

[clomicka]

Who cares what you think...

My advice is because you are obviously disturbed and cannot follow logic, counseling will help you deal with reality in a more consistant manner. Calling me names does nothing to help present your case, but it does raise a red flag as to your competency to interact with the child in question.

The only reason I would take the time to respond to you is to show in this thread how much you "Father bash" and bring up "support money" as a father and step mother's reason for wanting the best for her.

This has never been about support. We pay it; and will continue on top of all the other things we provide for her...

You are the warped one thinking that money drives everything.

We just would rather have her in controlled activities and a monitored environment versus being in a half-asz put together room unattended while mom raises a new child. As it is the trouble she has gotten into is because of bio Mom's bad decisions...

 

[clomicka]

Nope, that is where you are wrong

Well at least you admit you are full of cr@p, and that what you post here is cr@p. You are correct, we don't need you posting cr@p here on this forum. Guess what, DCFS will also recognize it as CR@P.
Please make an appointment to be evaluated by a psychiatrist Monday morning.

So butt out, like I said. She is on her last leg; and it is her problem. Maybe you know her...It seems like you can relate...

Good Luck and hope anyone reading this realizes your advise for "Fathers" is CR@P.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

If the shoe fits rmet4nzkx; wear it... Since you seem to be like bio mom, don't comment..

Your advise is so one sided.....You do NOT have any intentions on helping anyone feel good except "moms like you"

This is a legal advice site, not a support group or feel good site. When you go to court, the judge will consider the evidence, not your emotional impressions or irrational beliefs. In fact, you are likely to cause your husband's visitation to be limited due to your mental health issues.

You wanted advice, you didn't like the advice that everyone else and I gave you, so sewing buttons on your underwear might keep you busy for a little while. You do wear underwear don't you? If you wear thongs, then you might want to try a Briziallian Bikini wax.

 

[clomicka]

rmet4nzkx-And you consider that advise...Nice...go to law school

You are very mis-informed!

 

[rmet4nzkx]

We just would rather have her in controlled activities and a monitored environment ..

Well, finally the first words of truth, in all your rants,
It is about: CONTROL, CONTROL, CONTROL. YOU don't control mom's parenting time. YOUR husband, doesn't control mom's parenting time. NONE of you control mom's reproductive rights.

WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO GET THAT THROUGH YOUR THICK SKULL?

YOU are not a party to this, YOU are interfering.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

So butt out, like I said. She is on her last leg; and it is her problem. Maybe you know her...It seems like you can relate...

Good Luck and hope anyone reading this realizes your advise for "Fathers" is CR@P.

You were the one to admit you were full of CR@P and that what you are posting is CR@P.

BTW, my advice is based on the facts, not who is CP/NCP nor what their sex is.
If you were under the impression this was a site for father's rights only or a site for support of stepmothers only and based on bias and not objective legal advice, you came to the wrong site.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

You are very mis-informed!

About what, see you have lost touch with reality.

Please make an appointment with a psychiatrist.

 

[clomicka]

You are petty as someone else said in some of your other posts...

Well, finally the first words of truth, in all your rants,
It is about: CONTROL, CONTROL, CONTROL. YOU don't control mom's parenting time. YOUR husband, doesn't control mom's parenting time. NONE of you control mom's reproductive rights.

WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO GET THAT THROUGH YOUR THICK SKULL?

YOU are not a party to this, YOU are interfering.

I do NOT want to control; we want her in controlled activities (meaning supervison) you are really a jerk!!

You want to say CONTROL; that is for people such as you and BIO mom who continually tell the father how to parent and try to always find some loop hole in the agreement to disallow some visit or some holiday

It is people such as you that make "Fathers" hate the legal system.

CONTROL is your game...

 

[rmet4nzkx]

I do NOT want to control; we want her in controlled activities (meaning supervison) you are really a jerk!!

You want to say CONTROL; that is for people such as you and BIO mom who continually tell the father how to parent and try to always find some loop hole in the agreement to disallow some visit or some holiday

It is people such as you that make "Fathers" hate the legal system.

CONTROL is your game...

How much more rope do you need?

 

[clomicka]

And you call your self-legal advisor??

How much more rope do you need?

That's really nice....now don't you think you belong on some other forum?

Bye! Take care.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

That's really nice....now don't you think you belong on some other forum?

Bye! Take care.

Nope, Bye bye.