OK, stepmom4ever .... remember, you did some really really bad things to this poor woman. So in your apology, you need to remember that and remember she is entitled to feel the way she does about your outrageous and immature actions.
I read her entire apology email back to you. It was, in short, amazing. I learned a lot about her character from it. You are dealing with someone w/legit feelings who told you some things you need to know. I don't think she was rude and you are really lucky she didn't come at you the way you came at her.
I'm really disappointed in you and your reaction to your "apology" email. I really thought you were sorry, but it's quite clear you are not. That's too bad. You really owe this woman, she does not owe you.
I completely understand her feeling and she sent this in response to my email. I'm done and now feel like a fool. I forgive her as well two wrongs dont make a right. thanks for everyone's response.
Bravo, on the strength that you "know" GOD , and I say, even Satan knew the scriptures, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14)
As the bible say and I quote "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." You don't need to convince me of how blissful your marriage is and how delightful you and Jovet's life have been. You can con family, friends, hey even the church, but you CANNOT mock GOD. You see, he knows everything, say it with me, everything. Just so you know, I know how the game works, it's a cover up to deceive outsider's of how messy your spiritual life is, get where I'm going? The good book (bible) have several verses conveying such behavior and it's actions behind it.
It would behoove you to read1 Corinthians 3:18 Do not deceive yourselves. If any one of you thinks he is wise by the standards of this age, he should become a "fool" so that he may become wise. Tajuana ( this is literally true in your case), wisdom is calling out to you, grasp on to it, write it on the tablets of your heart. Lean not on your own understanding Proverbs 3:5. Galatians 6:7 Do not be deceived : God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sow.
Hey, here's some food for thought, Proverbs 9:7 whoever corrects a mocker invites insults. Now I will let you ponder on that for a second. Remember my initial email to you? It was not to insult you nor provoke you into retaliation. It was absolutely the truth about this entire situation. YOU chose to try and insult me with your many words of emptiness. Sure you're married, sure you claim you knew about me, and absolutely sure the focus is about Elijah. However, if that was the case, why did you feel the need to go on about how I'm "supposedly" distraught about your happy union with Jovet? That was your only comeback to the truth about you, your hubby and the situation at hand (it was useless). You should have addressed the issue at hand, which is, as a SPIRITUAL women, you should have owned up to your wrong in this situation.
Bottom line you had no right to appear at the hospital nor my home, what if it were you? How keen would you have been? Ask yourself, what would JESUS do, he damn sure wouldn't have done what you did. Now you talk about this "Better person you've become" I highly suggest in moving forward that you own your mistakes, take responsibility and not rely on excuses for your actions (that will only bring annihilation upon you). The next person might not be as kind to forgiveness.
Also, If you've paid any attention to my first email, it states as such "I'm ONLY here to foster a loving relationship for JOVET (your hubby) and his son, that's it." Let me also enlighten you that my son is the ONLY important person in this messy situation. So, get over yourself about me focusing primarily on your untimely marriage, that alone prompt immediate attention for wisdom.
Remember, GOD cannot be mocked. you want to truly live for god, REPENT (2Corinthians 7:10) your attitude should have been as such because you were wrong for showing up at that hospital and disrespecting me in my home. God will deal with you, trust and believe this.
And so I digress
Refuse to participate in the insanity.
