Interception of Electronic Communication

[ikecvfd2]

And did you have any PROOF of her physical abuse? You know - police reports, ER records, etc? The reason they made the assumption taht they did is because of the thousands of parents (of either gender) who claim abuse in a custody case for the express purpose of "getting" the ex.

You are absolutely right. I have no proof of her abuse of me because like most people who are abused (Men and women) I did not want to tell anyone, and tried to rationalize it. When I went to the hospital for stitches on numerous occassions I claimed something else was to blame. I wish I could go back and change things so that I would have proof now, but I can't. As far as my daughter goes. I had many pictures of bruises, scrapes, black eyes, Including one of a cut my daughter got on her lips from getting ahold of my ex-wife's husband's (number 3) razor blade, and one where my daughter had over 25 mosquito bites because her mother would put her outside to play and leave her there for hours, despite the amount of mosquitos and the threat of West Nile Virus. I called the police but they said that if all I had was pictures and suspicions then they couldn't do anything, and I needed to call CPS. However, CPS claimed that it wasn't enough because the injuries could have been from playing. ( she never recieved such injuries while playing at my place.) I'm positive that they just assumed I was trying to get her, or at least think there isn't enough evidence to suggest otherwise.

 

[ikecvfd2]

rmet4nzkx,

First my daugher does not have any bleeding disorder. I know this because 2 of my brothers have hemophillia, and my sisters Van Willibrans (sp?). She was tested at an early age, and she is negative. Second, if you want to call me unstable, that's one thing. I admit it is hard to keep a level head when your childs safety is at stake and that has effected me, but you do not have near enough information to compare my stability with my ex-wife's. I have not even scratched the surface of her instability and pshcyological problems. You sound intelligent, so try just sticking to information you already know something about.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

rmet4nzkx,
First my daugher does not have any bleeding disorder. I know this because 2 of my brothers have hemophillia, and my sisters Van Willibrans (sp?). She was tested at an early age, and she is negative. Second, if you want to call me unstable, that's one thing. I admit it is hard to keep a level head when your childs safety is at stake and that has effected me, but you do not have near enough information to compare my stability with my ex-wife's. I have not even scratched the surface of her instability and pshcyological problems. You sound intelligent, so try just sticking to information you already know something about.

With your family history of bleeding disorders you need to get your child to a hematologist for the unexplained bruises, this should be done while your child is young before she matures these are often treatable but when undiagnosed can cause much frustration and false accusations. I suspected such a family history by what you described. HOWEVER, as I explained, one test for vW (von Willebrand's Disease) does NOT mean your daughter has no bleeding disorder! It may take several attempts to catch it because it's an acute reactant, ask the hematologist to explain it. vW is genetic, as are hemophillia. There are several types of hemophillia, A, B&C there are several other conditions and genetic disorders that affect clotting factors, your child could have another bleeding or platlett disorder, ATT which affects vW factor VIII & XIa (hemophillia C) your daughter should have a test for A1AD which is free and confidential, as 2/3 of vW factor XIa is affected by ATT so a varient or person with low levels could have a clotting disorder without a diagnosed bleeding disorder, go to http://alphaone.org for links to testing.

I based my assessment on your stability on your statements and actions, I have no way to assess your ex, however if your daughter has an unDx bleeding/clotting disorder, this will factor into both your actions and why it is impatative to resolve so both of you are acting based on reality and the best interest of your child.

 

[ikecvfd2]

With your family history of bleeding disorders you need to get your child to a hematologist for the unexplained bruises, this should be done while your child is young before she matures these are often treatable but when undiagnosed can cause much frustration and false accusations. I suspected such a family history by what you described. HOWEVER, as I explained, one test for vW (von Willebrand's Disease) does NOT mean your daughter has no bleeding disorder! It may take several attempts to catch it because it's an acute reactant, ask the hematologist to explain it. vW is genetic, as are hemophillia. There are several types of hemophillia, A, B&C there are several other conditions and genetic disorders that affect clotting factors, your child could have another bleeding or platlett disorder, ATT which affects vW factor VIII & XIa (hemophillia C) your daughter should have a test for A1AD which is free and confidential, as 2/3 of vW factor XIa is affected by ATT so a varient or person with low levels could have a clotting disorder without a diagnosed bleeding disorder, go to http://alphaone.org for links to testing.

I based my assessment on your stability on your statements and actions, I have no way to assess your ex, however if your daughter has an unDx bleeding/clotting disorder, this will factor into both your actions and why it is impatative to resolve so both of you are acting based on reality and the best interest of your child.

I;m glad you know so much about bleeding disprders. I do too, as it is very common in my family. She had several tests done, to rule everything out. I suspect abuse because my ex-wife has a terrible rage problem, and was very physically abusive with me. The blood disorder issue does not affect anything. Blood disorders have nothing to do with the fact that she is abusive, bi-polar, has a terrible rage issue, and was a big time drug dealer. Again, I'm not claiming to be Mr. Stability. Show me one guy who's been through what I have been and is still the picture of stability. You can't.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

I;m glad you know so much about bleeding disprders. I do too, as it is very common in my family. She had several tests done, to rule everything out. I suspect abuse because my ex-wife has a terrible rage problem, and was very physically abusive with me. The blood disorder issue does not affect anything. Blood disorders have nothing to do with the fact that she is abusive, bi-polar, has a terrible rage issue, and was a big time drug dealer. Again, I'm not claiming to be Mr. Stability. Show me one guy who's been through what I have been and is still the picture of stability. You can't.

You already got answers from attorney's.

I also gave you an answer: No one is going to prosecute your wife for intercepting your email in 2001 because she had your permission and you failed to change your password. It will be he said, she said, you can't gain custody for that reason.

She will not lose custody because she is bipolar and or has a rage problem.

You are playing the game of trying to get custody to avoid child support and trying to make unsubstantiated abuse charges, you are not the first to do that and not the last. Don't blame your acknowledged instabality on you ex.

With YOUR family history of bleeding disorders, any unexplained bruises will be blamed on you. Your daughter could have A1AD and/or vW with NORMAL test results when she is reacting, most hematologists are not going to test for A1AD that is why I gave you the free test link and most don't readily know of it's link to vW factor XIa and your daughter has not been tested for every bleeding disorder, actually getting a diagnosis of a genitic disorder that explains the abnormal signs of bleeding could help your daughter more in the longrun than your desire to avoid paying childsupport. If that is the case and your ex continues to neglect your child then the doctor can report, now do you understand ????????

 

[ikecvfd2]

You are playing the game of trying to get custody to avoid child support and trying to make unsubstantiated abuse charges, you are not the first to do that and not the last. Don't blame your acknowledged instabality on you ex.

WHO IN THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?! You may be smart about somethings but you don't know crap about my situation. I am trying to get my daughter out of a dangerous situation. My wife was very abusive to me, and you have no right to say otherwise just based on a few messages. If you had as much of a brain as you would like to think you do, you should know better than to think you have enough information about me or my situation to make such a stupid statement. It is jerkoffs like you that keep men who are abused by their wives from coming out because they are affraid they will just be seen as trying to get revenge or use it for other reasons.

Yes, I would like it if I didn't have to spend so much on child support. I pay more in child support for my daughter than twice what I can give my other 2 children from my current marriage. But that doesn't change the fact that my daughter is in a dangerous situation, and despite what all you people think, I am going to do whatever the hell it takes to get her out of there and into a safe home.

 

[CdwJava]

So ... getting back to the question at hand ... what did the police say when you presented this to them?

My guess is they aren't going to do much. But, I could be wrong.

- Carl

 

[ikecvfd2]

So ... getting back to the question at hand ... what did the police say when you presented this to them?

My guess is they aren't going to do much. But, I could be wrong.

- Carl

My friend who is a deputy for the Sheriff's Office that would have jurisdiction is supposed to be talking to the detectives about it to see what they will do. I'm still waiting to hear back from her.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=203497

People on this site were honestly trying to help you. You post Texas, yet you live in UTAH. If you want help with your child, you need to be honest.

The only thing that sticks out in my mind reading your posts, is that in almost every thread you state"She Abused Me When We Were Married". Get over it already, your divorced and it doesn't effect anything.

You have been asked what the police said, and you continually state "My friend is looking into it".

I don't know if anyone will respond to you now, but I do wish you and your daughter the best of luck.

 

[ikecvfd2]

https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=203497

People on this site were honestly trying to help you. You post Texas, yet you live in UTAH. If you want help with your child, you need to be honest.

I do live in Utah, but the issue happened in Texas, and Texas laws are what would apply. Maybe if you read the posts for the real content, instead of just trying to find something to be clever about you would have figured that out.

 

[CdwJava]

And here is a couple key questions that will be asked:

(1) What was the nature of the intercepted e-mail and what damage or harm was done?

(2) What proof do you have that she actually read or intercepted the e-mail?

Without damage or concrete proof, there is even less of a chance (which is already slim) that they will even bother looking in to it.

If all she did was open your e-mail account and look at some e-mail, I can almost guarantee that nobody will pay attention to it ... unless they have a really bored detective who is dying to try out some neat new high-tech training he just received.

This may be a Hail Mary pass into a gale force wind.

- Carl