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Is it legal to host and/or participate in swingers party

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fstep2

Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New Jersey

Is it legal to host one or be involved in one if a fee is charged at the door? Can it be looked at as prostitution somehow?
 


davew128

Senior Member
OHRoadwarrior will be along shortly. :D

I don't know about Jersey specifically, but generally as long as the fee is to cover expenses you should be ok but local ordinances might apply.
 

Ohiogal

Queen Bee
OHRoadwarrior will be along shortly. :D

I don't know about Jersey specifically, but generally as long as the fee is to cover expenses you should be ok but local ordinances might apply.

Actually it could be considered prostitution. He could be charged with that among other things because he is charging a fee for people to swing (i.e. exchange sexual partners). Now if he just wants to have a party with like minded individuals without a fee that would not be prostitution.
 

fstep2

Member
Actually it could be considered prostitution. He could be charged with that among other things because he is charging a fee for people to swing (i.e. exchange sexual partners). Now if he just wants to have a party with like minded individuals without a fee that would not be prostitution.

well a fee is necessary to cover the venue expense. i know there are clubs that have these and advertise them so it can't be completely illegal i just wanted to know the dos and don'ts
 

HomeGuru

Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New Jersey

Is it legal to host one or be involved in one if a fee is charged at the door? Can it be looked at as prostitution somehow?

**A: where is the location ie. in a zoned business district or at a private residence?
 

HomeGuru

Senior Member
C'mon - quit beating around the bush. You are just trying to find out where the party is... :p

**A: I know where the party is since I'm the host. I am just trying to see if the OP is one of my invited guests and thinking of a way to not pay the cover charge at the door.
 

davew128

Senior Member
Actually it could be considered prostitution. He could be charged with that among other things because he is charging a fee for people to swing (i.e. exchange sexual partners). Now if he just wants to have a party with like minded individuals without a fee that would not be prostitution.
You're so wrong on this its not even funny. I'm going to make a wild assumption here and guess you truly don't understand what this is. If nothing else, attending one of these parties doesn't necessarily mean one will have sex, and more to the point, the entrance fees are usually nominal and really ARE set to cover the cost of the party such as food, drinks, etc.
 
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xylene

Senior Member
If it has to do with sex and people having sex... then the prudes and churchgoers will always find some way to prosecute.

Be discrete.



Isopropyl alcohol; but silicone lubricants are better.
 

slwslw

Member
Check with these people to see what hoops and obstacles they went through to have swinger parties in Jersey.

New Jersey Swinger Party

I was in OK City once. Checked into a hotel near I-40. Walked down a hallway past the banquet room, which had a chain and lock around the door handles. I heard people inside so, I opened the door a couple of inches.

Holy Crap! What a surprise! Some of those women were good looking.

I later asked the front desk clerk and he said they meet here every month.

In Arizona they have 2 locations where you pay to enter. No guarantee of sex. They had to fight the city, but won.

It was kind of embarrassing when the El Mirage Police Chief (Jeff Love) was caught in there and lost his job over it.:o

Regardless of what the law says, city officials will get creative to try and shut you down, that's why it's best to contact others who've done it so they can answer questions and refer you to attorney's in your state, who have experience dealing with this matter.

There are tons of web sites for swinger parties.

 

fstep2

Member
**A: I know where the party is since I'm the host. I am just trying to see if the OP is one of my invited guests and thinking of a way to not pay the cover charge at the door.

we would be renting out a space (basically a bar/lounge). also assume the possibility of a couple of the girls being pros. is there a way to do it that way legally if not would the regular way work?
 

xylene

Senior Member
we would be renting out a space (basically a bar/lounge). also assume the possibility of a couple of the girls being pros. is there a way to do it that way legally if not would the regular way work?

You are jerking us around.

You can't call a whore party a swingers party and have it be legal.
 

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