It never ends

[Zephyr]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? WI

As some of you know, last month I filed for a restraining order against my ex-husband's wife because of her online harassment of me, previous harassment towards me and videotaping me. The restraining order was not granted because I did not have the IP addresses of her postings and I did not have video of her videotaping me...both her and ex straightfaced lied and said no videotaping had happened.

Since the hearing Skeletor has not attended the child custody exchanges. I thought this meant she had finally realized what she was doing was not productive.

Friday I was served with paperwork, she filed for a restraining order against me. She cites that I have been to her house in 2005 taking pictures. I was but that was for the custody case (not her) and I never left my vehicle or interacted with anyone. She cites I went to her house to drop off my son. I think that was in 06 or 07, but that was a miscommunication between dad and I- again- nothing to do with her. Then she states that I have tried to get her in trouble with the police and with the DA. I turned her defamatory internet postings into to the police who attempted to issue a ticket for disorderly conduct and then because of the way a statute is written had to turn the case over to the DA.

She says she is scared that once I run out of legal options to harass her that she is afraid for her safety.

Obviously, this is a retaliatory filing- she basically took the wording from my ro petition and tweeked it to suit her.

Is this common for people to do this for retaliation? Do the judges see it as such?

I am thinking I will ask the judge to dismiss it with prejudice and order her to reimburse me for lost wages and travel. Is there a better way I can handle this?

 

[Ohiogal]

Hope that She-Ra and He-Man show up and take her down? Battle Cat is necessary.

Seriously though I have no other ideas than what we discussed a few nights ago. But I send this to you:
YouTube - He-Man vs. Skeletor - The Arena

Note the advertisement on that page.

 

[Artemis_ofthe_Hunt]

It never ends

Now I've got that neverending song stuck in my head..... and I can hear Lambchop singing it! ARRGGHH

 

[Proserpina]

Now I've got that neverending song stuck in my head..... and I can hear Lambchop singing it! ARRGGHH

At least it isn't being sung by the ever-ubiquitous Big Yella Spongey Thing.

(OG is going to smack me so hard...)

Hang in there Zeph.

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

Oh, I can hear this:

Skeletor: She took a picture of me at my house?
Judge: when was this?
Skeletor: ummmm, ummmm, three years ago.
Judge: then why didn't you do something about it three years ago?
and so forth
I would come armed with YOUR RO and show how her wording and style mimics yours.

Worse case: ask that you EACH have one with the other.

 

[Antigone*]

Now I've got that neverending song stuck in my head..... and I can hear Lambchop singing it! ARRGGHH

I loved Lambchop!!!!

Zephyr, I'm really sorry about the troubles. Just remember this too shall pass.

 

[Ohiogal]

At least it isn't being sung by the ever-ubiquitous Big Yella Spongey Thing.

(OG is going to smack me so hard...)

Hang in there Zeph.

I have a headache and you mention IT! ARRGGH. I am not sharing my chocolate and wine or chocolate wine with you!
CHOCOVINE
CHOCOVINE
CHOCOVINE
CHOCOVINE
CHOCOVINE

I am going to have to get up the courage to drink that. It is nicely chilled right now.

 

[Proserpina]

I have a headache and you mention IT! ARRGGH. I am not sharing my chocolate and wine or chocolate wine with you!
CHOCOVINE
CHOCOVINE
CHOCOVINE
CHOCOVINE
CHOCOVINE

I am going to have to get up the courage to drink that. It is nicely chilled right now.

Chocovine seems to be quite sublime, divine and lots of other words that may rhyme somewhat.

(Except "orange". Can't find anything to rhyme with "orange")

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

Yeppers - it's the stuff that I've had before ... boy do I love it! Talk about getting your chocolate fix!! All the while making you happy!! Highly recommend it.

 

[Antigone*]

Yeppers - it's the stuff that I've had before ... boy do I love it! Talk about getting your chocolate fix!! All the while making you happy!! Highly recommend it.

Is this something we can get at BevMO?

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

What's a BevMo?

You can probably find it at a place that specializes in wine. I can get mine at a WineStyles.

 

[Antigone*]

What's a BevMo?

You can probably find it at a place that specializes in wine. I can get mine at a WineStyles.

www.bevmo.com

probably very similar to your WineStyles

no Chocovine...what is up with that!!!

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

if you go to the www.chocovine.com website, there is a contact list that shows distributors by state. Those distributors can probably give you an idea where you can get it.

 

[LdiJ]

Oh, I can hear this:

Skeletor: She took a picture of me at my house?
Judge: when was this?
Skeletor: ummmm, ummmm, three years ago.
Judge: then why didn't you do something about it three years ago?
and so forth
I would come armed with YOUR RO and show how her wording and style mimics yours.

Worse case: ask that you EACH have one with the other.

Its actually 4 years ago for the first issue...

However, I do agree with this. I do think that the worst that could happen is a mutual restraining order, and that might not be a bad thing.

 

[Zephyr]

Its actually 4 years ago for the first issue...

However, I do agree with this. I do think that the worst that could happen is a mutual restraining order, and that might not be a bad thing.

I actually thought about just asking for that, hubby thinks if I can avoid having an RO on the record that's the better way to go. I agree, given my business but right now, anything to just have her stop the games....