Shineondivine
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? KY
This is a long story, but I'll try to make it short. My husband planned a divorce behind my back, got his ducks in a row per his atty's advice, broke a steel rod in my spine, was taken out of the home with an emergency order, our baby was 8 mo's old.
For the emergency hearing i had to have an atty fast! My atty said if i told the truth and my husband lied and the judge believed him, my children and I would be on the street with no money (he took it all) and no where to go. Her strongly urged me not to get a domestic violence order. I did that.
What a mistake. The broken steel rod in my spine, though presented in court, never made it to evidence or exhibit, then the court "lost" it. The attack on me never made one single difference in the court. The police department refused to do an investigation into the attack. My husband painted "me" as being the "bad" person and had a very infulential atty. Mine was terrible, since I had no money. So... he made accusations that were false, had false witnesses that had known him only a short time and won primary residential custody. I lost custody of my baby girl child to a pornography addict (has a long history of different kinds of addiction). In less than a year the girlfriend of his that he was seeing before we split (hindsight is 20/20) was living with my baby, replacing me as her mother.
He is completely mean to me, refusing to even speak to me on the telephone. I have standard visitation which is way too little. Recently she was sick on my "visitation" time, I had to put her in the hospital, in order to get him to return a phone call to me, my atty had to contact his atty and tell him his daughter was in the hospital.
I put a motion in for expanded visitation almost one year ago, it is coming up April 12. He then filed a motion for supervised visitation and limited visitation for me. There is no foundation for this, but whatever his atty says in court, happens. They make the rules, I must follow them.
I requested a "parental evaluation", my atty mentioned a company that said they could do it. His atty said we couldn't "name" a company, named his own and got it. The report came back as bad for me, and he was a knight in shining armour. I KNEW there was a snake in the woods. I began researching the dr. As it turned out there was a proffer of proof adduced that stated the case and names of individuals that the dr had lied in their case, running simultaneously with mine in the same district. The court refused to hear the evidence about the dr's truth and veracity, claiming it would "open pandora's box" on all of the past cases the dr had testified in, he is the "commonly used" expert in my town.
What in the world can I do? I cannot give up on my baby. This is WRONG. I am now broken financially (part of his plan) and still fighting for justice. Three months after primary residential custody was given and my baby moved, she developed herpes. Again, they put her right back with him.
There are no men in my life, no drugs (I passed five drug tests including hair, blood and urine) and no babysitters. The court ordered hair drug tests for both of us, I did mine, six months later in court when I asked for his hair test results, the judge looked at me and asked "are you just fishing" and the hair test result was dropped. The judge did not make his own court order stand.
Please help...
Thank you
This is a long story, but I'll try to make it short. My husband planned a divorce behind my back, got his ducks in a row per his atty's advice, broke a steel rod in my spine, was taken out of the home with an emergency order, our baby was 8 mo's old.
For the emergency hearing i had to have an atty fast! My atty said if i told the truth and my husband lied and the judge believed him, my children and I would be on the street with no money (he took it all) and no where to go. Her strongly urged me not to get a domestic violence order. I did that.
What a mistake. The broken steel rod in my spine, though presented in court, never made it to evidence or exhibit, then the court "lost" it. The attack on me never made one single difference in the court. The police department refused to do an investigation into the attack. My husband painted "me" as being the "bad" person and had a very infulential atty. Mine was terrible, since I had no money. So... he made accusations that were false, had false witnesses that had known him only a short time and won primary residential custody. I lost custody of my baby girl child to a pornography addict (has a long history of different kinds of addiction). In less than a year the girlfriend of his that he was seeing before we split (hindsight is 20/20) was living with my baby, replacing me as her mother.
He is completely mean to me, refusing to even speak to me on the telephone. I have standard visitation which is way too little. Recently she was sick on my "visitation" time, I had to put her in the hospital, in order to get him to return a phone call to me, my atty had to contact his atty and tell him his daughter was in the hospital.
I put a motion in for expanded visitation almost one year ago, it is coming up April 12. He then filed a motion for supervised visitation and limited visitation for me. There is no foundation for this, but whatever his atty says in court, happens. They make the rules, I must follow them.
I requested a "parental evaluation", my atty mentioned a company that said they could do it. His atty said we couldn't "name" a company, named his own and got it. The report came back as bad for me, and he was a knight in shining armour. I KNEW there was a snake in the woods. I began researching the dr. As it turned out there was a proffer of proof adduced that stated the case and names of individuals that the dr had lied in their case, running simultaneously with mine in the same district. The court refused to hear the evidence about the dr's truth and veracity, claiming it would "open pandora's box" on all of the past cases the dr had testified in, he is the "commonly used" expert in my town.
What in the world can I do? I cannot give up on my baby. This is WRONG. I am now broken financially (part of his plan) and still fighting for justice. Three months after primary residential custody was given and my baby moved, she developed herpes. Again, they put her right back with him.
There are no men in my life, no drugs (I passed five drug tests including hair, blood and urine) and no babysitters. The court ordered hair drug tests for both of us, I did mine, six months later in court when I asked for his hair test results, the judge looked at me and asked "are you just fishing" and the hair test result was dropped. The judge did not make his own court order stand.
Please help...
Thank you