Married with Doubts

[IUPG]

What is the name of your state?Location - MICHIGAN
Issue - Doubts of son being mine.

I have a very strong doubt that the son my wife mothered is not mine. She and I have been married for a little over a year. Now she filed for divorce. When doing a time study she could have very well became pregnant when I was in GA for three weeks. She "of course" claims she would never do that but I have to beg to differ. While in a argument 3 months after she let me know she was pregnant she blurted out that someone had taken "advantage" of her while I was in GA and that she did not file a police report because she didn't feel she wanted to be a cop caller. (Hmmmmm). So now that "our" son is here Named entirely after me looking nothing at all like me. But resembles the man who had "taken advantage" or her. I need to know what steps I should take to get her to conduct a DNA test. Since I have let her know that I will be getting a DNA test she has not allowed me to see my son nor will she allow anyone in my family to visit with him. I believe she is in fear of having a DNA test taken and she is trying to avoid that at all costs.

 

[Wolflmg]

Hmm, hard call. Are you paying child support towards him? And have you mentioned this to the court or to your lawyer? If there is doubt or if you truely want to know the truth then see if you can get a court order for a DNA test.

Although be fully prepared for the results you may get, because once you get them there will be no going back. As an old saying goes 'Sometimes the turth, hurts more then the lie'.

 

[AHA]

Get a DNA test.
Lots of babies don't look anything like either of the parents (which doesn't mean they can't be the parents), so you can't judge either way just by looking at a kid.