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I've been getting advice, under post "What else should we do".
To clarify. Mom has her mother & some siblings in Arizona. She was living with her mom, & that's the address the court has. Several other sisters, some aunts & a grandmother live in CO. We have some people in CO. too. So, I guess I wasn't real clear.
Yesterday, while son was at courthouse, a sister from AZ called & said babys mom was passing a message through her ~ babys mom would call son on Fri. She also said mom of baby was VISITING CO., not living there. This family is all very "clannish". 10 living siblings, NONE of them have ever lived on "thier own". 3 (never 2) or 4 or 5 will pile up in a house, apt. & live together... with all the kids; in AZ. they usually live with thier Mom. They just move en` masse from place to place. They just think it's "strange" a Daddy wants to be involved. My grandson, 20 months, has lived in 8 places (documented) between AZ & Co. Usually, utilities are in whoevers name is convienent, & they jump from job to job... Forwarding mail isn't something they would even think of doing. This sounds bad, but it's just a different lifestyle, & they all love thier kids. My son has kept the same home in VA. for nearly 2 years & he & babys mom lived there together; briefly. Son also has an excellent job; & has recently been promoted ~ he is the youngest person (20 years) to have this position. He has a licensed day care provider, as well. And a car & drivers license, which the mom doesn't. (She's just never felt a need to get one, it wasn't "taken away").
The custodial interference report was drawn up in AZ. so hopefully, something can be done. We just cannot believe it will take up to 8 weeks for Daddy to see his son. That's just not right...
My question I guess is this : Son has already filed "contempt". Should he file a "motion to modify" as well? Should we be doing anything else? Thank you again!
I've been getting advice, under post "What else should we do".
To clarify. Mom has her mother & some siblings in Arizona. She was living with her mom, & that's the address the court has. Several other sisters, some aunts & a grandmother live in CO. We have some people in CO. too. So, I guess I wasn't real clear.
Yesterday, while son was at courthouse, a sister from AZ called & said babys mom was passing a message through her ~ babys mom would call son on Fri. She also said mom of baby was VISITING CO., not living there. This family is all very "clannish". 10 living siblings, NONE of them have ever lived on "thier own". 3 (never 2) or 4 or 5 will pile up in a house, apt. & live together... with all the kids; in AZ. they usually live with thier Mom. They just move en` masse from place to place. They just think it's "strange" a Daddy wants to be involved. My grandson, 20 months, has lived in 8 places (documented) between AZ & Co. Usually, utilities are in whoevers name is convienent, & they jump from job to job... Forwarding mail isn't something they would even think of doing. This sounds bad, but it's just a different lifestyle, & they all love thier kids. My son has kept the same home in VA. for nearly 2 years & he & babys mom lived there together; briefly. Son also has an excellent job; & has recently been promoted ~ he is the youngest person (20 years) to have this position. He has a licensed day care provider, as well. And a car & drivers license, which the mom doesn't. (She's just never felt a need to get one, it wasn't "taken away").
The custodial interference report was drawn up in AZ. so hopefully, something can be done. We just cannot believe it will take up to 8 weeks for Daddy to see his son. That's just not right...
My question I guess is this : Son has already filed "contempt". Should he file a "motion to modify" as well? Should we be doing anything else? Thank you again!
