What is the name of your state? Oklahoma
I am probably going to give more info than needed. But....
I have a 10 year old Daughter
My ex is asking to have the child support lowered because he says he has taken a decrease in pay. I honestly don't see that this is possible, but its beside the point. He is also asking for more visitation. As it is now he has standard every other weekend and holiday vistitation. I also allow him to take her on special occasions. (Partys etc.) And I also allow His mother (my childs grandmother) special visits because he doesn't set our child see her very often. Now my ex is asking for an extra weekend a month and wants to have an over night visit during the week. He very rarely calls our child during the week. I don't think this is a good Idea since he doesnt live in the same school district. I have offered an evening visit once a week in addition to regular visitation. I told him that he could pick her up after school and have her home by 8. Is this reasonable negociation or am I being selfish. My selfish problem is that it will be his wife picking our daughter because he doesn't get home until 5
I am probably going to give more info than needed. But....
I have a 10 year old Daughter
My ex is asking to have the child support lowered because he says he has taken a decrease in pay. I honestly don't see that this is possible, but its beside the point. He is also asking for more visitation. As it is now he has standard every other weekend and holiday vistitation. I also allow him to take her on special occasions. (Partys etc.) And I also allow His mother (my childs grandmother) special visits because he doesn't set our child see her very often. Now my ex is asking for an extra weekend a month and wants to have an over night visit during the week. He very rarely calls our child during the week. I don't think this is a good Idea since he doesnt live in the same school district. I have offered an evening visit once a week in addition to regular visitation. I told him that he could pick her up after school and have her home by 8. Is this reasonable negociation or am I being selfish. My selfish problem is that it will be his wife picking our daughter because he doesn't get home until 5