Mother of Child and I agree:

[tgough2002]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California

I have been paying my child support on time for 5 years and the mother of my child would like to drop child support through the courts, simply becuase there is a delay in her obtaning payments. Is it possible to have child support dropped in California and have both parties work it out on their own?

 

[LdiJ]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California

I have been paying my child support on time for 5 years and the mother of my child would like to drop child support through the courts, simply becuase there is a delay in her obtaning payments. Is it possible to have child support dropped in California and have both parties work it out on their own?

How much of a delay is there? Its actually advantageous to you to have it continue through the CSE, because there is a concrete record of your payments.

 

[drpepper404]

The custodial parent must write to CSE and tell them to take no more action on her behalf. However, I recommend if you go this way to make sure you get and keep detailed records of any money you pay towards the child and make sure you have her denote that she understands she is collection CS and that money is not a gift.

 

[meanyjack]

The custodial parent must write to CSE and tell them to take no more action on her behalf. However, I recommend if you go this way to make sure you get and keep detailed records of any money you pay towards the child and make sure you have her denote that she understands she is collection CS and that money is not a gift.

Here we go again. What's your address. I would like to take your advice so I can write to you to tell you to SHUT UP AND STOP THIS BS SPEWING OF YOURS!!

 

[meanyjack]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California

I have been paying my child support on time for 5 years and the mother of my child would like to drop child support through the courts, simply becuase there is a delay in her obtaning payments. Is it possible to have child support dropped in California and have both parties work it out on their own?

As Ldi stated, it is best to keep CSEA involved. For her, too bad if there is a "delay". Everyone collecting CS experiences a delay. That's because the money that is garnished has to be sent to CSEA. Time is given to the employer to do this. Then when CSEA gets it, then they have a set amount of time to disperse it to the obligee.
As long as you are paying it on time, her issues are not your problem.

 

[mommyof4]

The custodial parent must write to CSE and tell them to take no more action on her behalf. However, I recommend if you go this way to make sure you get and keep detailed records of any money you pay towards the child and make sure you have her denote that she understands she is collection CS and that money is not a gift.

Just HUSH.

You have no idea what you are talking about. For all you know, the poster and his ex are in a situation that would make it absolutely impossible to discontinue CS collections. Didja' think of that?

 

[CourtClerk]

Tell her to sign up for direct deposit with SDU (State Disbursement Unit). They turn the money over within 48 hours of CSSD receiving it at SDU.

Employers are now taking to paying CSSD by wire transfer more and more these days. If there is a delay, then it is generally with the employer SENDING the funds, not the state disbursing them. They have no interest in keeping her money any longer than they have to.

 

[meanyjack]

Didja' think of that?

You're assuming that DrClueless actually is capable of thinking.

 

[mommyof4]

You're assuming that DrClueless actually is capable of thinking.

True. My mistake.