What is the name of your state? WI
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=232958
There is the link to one of my other threads for some background, we had the hearing for the motion for reconsideration on Friday, the motion was denied. What confuses me is the judge said it was like monday morning quarterbacking, that just because people do not like the outcome of a case they can't come back and file for reconsideration. That statement really confuses me, because does anyone who does like the outcome of their case ever file for reconsideration????
So I guess we are at the point of possibly going for an appeal, what is the burden I must overcome in being granted a request for an appeal?
The basisi for the motion for reconsideration was the fact that the GAL did not perform according to statutes and was biased in his recommendation to the court. However there are other issues in the case. When my new laywer cam on board after the old one lost his license, he was told that in the next court hearing he would only be allowed to requestion me on the stand, the judge did not want the whole case retried. But during the motion for reconsideration, the question that kept getting asked by the judge was- why wasn't this brought up at the Aug 29 hearing....it couldn't be brought up because my lawyer was restricted to only questioning me about what I had been previously questioned about- basically clarifying my testimony from 5 months prior. However in between the two court dates there were at least 5 instances of denied visitation, and my ex doing things with my son that I should have either been consulted on or notified of afterwards, which I never was.
I would try to make the GAL aware of these things but he never once returned a phone call to me after the first hearing and his initial recommendation.
Also the judge told the opposing attorney that I was to be consulted on the drafting of the order before he signied it, opposing counsel never did this, he drafted an overly restrictive order, I don't even have my son for 48 hours eow, it ends up being that I have time to have 2 actual dinners with my son per month...does this order being drafted against what the judge said carry any weight?
I am just really confused how this turned out the way it did, the court seems totally uninterested in actually understanding the situation and/or what is best for the child, and, of course....and I am not the least bit surprised about this, the alienation tactics have started....
So I guess the questions are, what is the bar that must be met in order for me to be granted an appeal?
or
Can I do anything to get the order changed (not actual custody just the wording and some times in the order) based on the fact that it is overly restrictive and not what the judge initially ordered?
The only silver lining I have in all of this is that new hubby is more than fine with supporting the household if need be so that my entire salary can go to lawyer fees....so I have the money, I just need the right direction.
Thanks guys er um or gals
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=232958
There is the link to one of my other threads for some background, we had the hearing for the motion for reconsideration on Friday, the motion was denied. What confuses me is the judge said it was like monday morning quarterbacking, that just because people do not like the outcome of a case they can't come back and file for reconsideration. That statement really confuses me, because does anyone who does like the outcome of their case ever file for reconsideration????

So I guess we are at the point of possibly going for an appeal, what is the burden I must overcome in being granted a request for an appeal?
The basisi for the motion for reconsideration was the fact that the GAL did not perform according to statutes and was biased in his recommendation to the court. However there are other issues in the case. When my new laywer cam on board after the old one lost his license, he was told that in the next court hearing he would only be allowed to requestion me on the stand, the judge did not want the whole case retried. But during the motion for reconsideration, the question that kept getting asked by the judge was- why wasn't this brought up at the Aug 29 hearing....it couldn't be brought up because my lawyer was restricted to only questioning me about what I had been previously questioned about- basically clarifying my testimony from 5 months prior. However in between the two court dates there were at least 5 instances of denied visitation, and my ex doing things with my son that I should have either been consulted on or notified of afterwards, which I never was.
I would try to make the GAL aware of these things but he never once returned a phone call to me after the first hearing and his initial recommendation.
Also the judge told the opposing attorney that I was to be consulted on the drafting of the order before he signied it, opposing counsel never did this, he drafted an overly restrictive order, I don't even have my son for 48 hours eow, it ends up being that I have time to have 2 actual dinners with my son per month...does this order being drafted against what the judge said carry any weight?
I am just really confused how this turned out the way it did, the court seems totally uninterested in actually understanding the situation and/or what is best for the child, and, of course....and I am not the least bit surprised about this, the alienation tactics have started....
So I guess the questions are, what is the bar that must be met in order for me to be granted an appeal?
or
Can I do anything to get the order changed (not actual custody just the wording and some times in the order) based on the fact that it is overly restrictive and not what the judge initially ordered?
The only silver lining I have in all of this is that new hubby is more than fine with supporting the household if need be so that my entire salary can go to lawyer fees....so I have the money, I just need the right direction.
Thanks guys er um or gals
