moral beliefs
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so, you're telling this LEGAL forum that your boss does not have the right to control how his business is run?moral beliefs said:I am the Manager of a hardware store in Michigan. There is a girl that comes in the Hardware store often. She comes in and stops to say hi to the cashiers and other employees as well as coming in to look at the products for sale. She is mentally challeged (I do not mean to sound mean, but it is important information). I was told the other day by my Boss, that the next time I saw her in the store I am supposed to kick her out, just because she talks to the employees. I think this is totally unfair and discrimination. She is not keeping the employees from their work, and she comes in with intent to purchase items. She shows no sign of possible shoplifting or any other kind of mischief that would have reason to be asked to leave a store. I want to know where my rights are on this subject. I feel that if I comply with my boss's request, then I will also be discriminating. I feel that what they expect me to do is morally wrong and I refuse to do it. I even told them that. I was told it was my job as the store manager to kick out all those who warrant the reason to be kicked out...and apperantly they feel she does (even though I don't). I am willing to loose my job by refusing to comply with their demand just so I can keep my self respect. I am just curious if I have a leg to stand on? Do I have the right as a citizen not to discriminate? And what can I do if action is taken towards me for not discriminating?
You say she comes in intending to buy, but does she? Is she loitering? Some people window shop, some people may enter a store many times before deciding to shop. Some DD individuals have obsessional traits or simply nothing to occupy their time. I would suggest you contact the center for independent living and inquire how to refer her for some social skills training so she can learn appropriate behavior. I once had a client who worked in a store. SHe would strike up a long conversation when ever she encountered me in public which made me uncomfortable. I would have to make sure she wasn't working before I shopped in the store or at least avoid the checkstand she was at or close to so that she wouldn't get fired. It is not a simple question.moral beliefs said:I am the Manager of a hardware store in Michigan. There is a girl that comes in the Hardware store often. She comes in and stops to say hi to the cashiers and other employees as well as coming in to look at the products for sale. She is mentally challeged (I do not mean to sound mean, but it is important information). I was told the other day by my Boss, that the next time I saw her in the store I am supposed to kick her out, just because she talks to the employees. I think this is totally unfair and discrimination. She is not keeping the employees from their work, and she comes in with intent to purchase items. She shows no sign of possible shoplifting or any other kind of mischief that would have reason to be asked to leave a store. I want to know where my rights are on this subject. I feel that if I comply with my boss's request, then I will also be discriminating. I feel that what they expect me to do is morally wrong and I refuse to do it. I even told them that. I was told it was my job as the store manager to kick out all those who warrant the reason to be kicked out...and apperantly they feel she does (even though I don't). I am willing to loose my job by refusing to comply with their demand just so I can keep my self respect. I am just curious if I have a leg to stand on? Do I have the right as a citizen not to discriminate? And what can I do if action is taken towards me for not discriminating?
BelizeBreeze said:so, you're telling this LEGAL forum that your boss does not have the right to control how his business is run?
faithnlve said:Sometimes it astounds me the replies you get in this forum. YOU need to take a look down the road. If you were to choose whether to keep your self respect or to keep your job, then I don't see that as much of a choice. If I was in your shoes and refused this person entry into your place of business/work, I would always be ashamed of what I did, and it probably would haunt me the rest of my life if I did what your bossed asked you to do and followed through with it. What you should do is call the eeoc or states attorney office in your state and ask them how to handle this. Some of the people in this forum are Human Resource employees, some have legal background. It astounds me how they present themselves as monitors for this "LEGAL" forum as advise givers. From what you have said your boss is discriminating against a disabled person. Yes, he can run his business anyways he wants, but, he cannot refuse service due to a disability, and he cannot force his employees to retaliate against a disabled person due to the fact he is uncomfortable with this person coming into his store. Let him be the jerk. It will backfire on him. If you know what is right follow through with what your heart tells you, and STAND your ground. God Bless Faith