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I AM ALWAYS LIABLE

Senior Member
Remember when . . .

...the prom was in the gym and we danced to 45's and all the girls wore pastel gowns and the boys wore suits for the first time and we stayed out all night.

...a '57 Chevy was everyone's dream car . . . to cruise, peel out, lay rubber or watch submarine races and kids went steady and girls wore a class ring with an inch of wrapped dental floss or yarn coated with pastel frost nail polish so it would fit her finger.

...no one ever asked where the car keys were 'cause they were always in the car, in the ignition and the doors were never locked.

...you got in big trouble if you accidentally locked the doors at home, since no one ever had a key.

...you and your friends would lie on your backs on the grass
and say things like "That cloud looks like a . . . "

...you played baseball with no adults to help kids with the rules of the game because baseball was not a psychological group learning experience -- it was a game.

...stuff from the store came without safety caps and hermetic seals 'cause no one had yet tried to poison a perfect stranger.

...being sent to the principal's office was nothing
compared to the fate that awaited a misbehaving student at home.
Basically, we were in fear for our lives, but it wasn't because of drive by shootings, drugs, gangs, etc.
Our parents and grandparents were a much bigger threat!!
But, we all survived because their love was greater than the threat.

And, with all our progress, don't you just wish . . . just once . . . you could slip back in time and savor the slower pace and share it with the children of the 80's and 90's?

And, who can't still remember Nancy Drew, The Hardy Boys, Laurel & Hardy, Howdy Doody and The Peanut Gallery, The Lone Ranger, The Shadow, Nellie Belle, Roy and Dale, Trigger and Buttermilk . . . as well as the sound of a push mower on Saturday morning and summers filled with bike rides, playing in cowboy land, baseball games, bowling and visits to the pool . . . and eating Kool-Aid powder with real sugar out of a straw.

Didn't that feel good, just to go back and say, "Yeah, I remember that! "

And was it really that long ago ?

Just thought I'd mention it . . .

IAAL
 


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EPS421

Guest
Dear IAAL....

You brought a tear to my eye:)

Truthfully, some of those moments you mentioned (prom in the gym....keys in the car), I am a bit young to remember firsthand, though I'm sure my older sister or husband can relate to them.....

But it was really neat...the other day, I caught my 15 year old daughter dressed in her punk black with blue hair and makeup reading a Nancy Drew mystery book! It was a sweet moment...I had to tell her how much those books meant to me as a child and we both smiled. It turns out she loves them as much as I did.

She's a great girl....both my daughters are wonderful. I have been appreciating them more and more recently....but thanks to you, dear IAAL, for bringing back memories of simpler times. I think my daughter, though she wasn't around during those times, appreciates them too :)
 
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craftymom

Guest
Thanks IAAL. For that moment while reading your post, today's world came to a halt in my mind. While I am too young to remember *some* of your reminiscences, it brought to mind those moments of easy happiness that bring a smile to my heart, and peace to my soul.
This is one of my favorites:

Remember when you and your friends went out to find small pieces of wood or sticks to turn into *boats*, and then put them in a gurgling stream to have *boat races*?



I hadn't thought of that in a long time....I think I'll go gather my kids and their friends and go find a stream for us to play in........
 

MySonsMom

Senior Member
Thanks IAAL, that was great. I always said that *if* I could go back and live in a time period, it would definately be the 50's and 60's. The stories my Mom and Dad told were fascinating.
 

I AM ALWAYS LIABLE

Senior Member
My response:

Ooooooooooo, baby ! Do I !

Thanks for cracking me up !

And, thanks to all for sharing your thoughts. Those were the good ol' days for me, and I was just getting a little meloncholy for the simpler times.

IAAL
 
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Grandma B

Guest
I'm a product of the 50's too. No music will ever surpass that era. And Coke came in a bottle.
 

I AM ALWAYS LIABLE

Senior Member
My response:

You got that right, sister !

With two straws in the bottle, sipping with your sweetheart, while sitting at the soda fountain, listening to Chuck Berry, or Mr. Ackerbilk playing his soulful clarinet, and all the other greats !

Those were good times. Good times.

IAAL
 

HomeGuru

Senior Member
When I was a kid my heroes were Superman, Batman and Robin, Bozo the Clown, The Incredible Hulk and all the Superheroes, Little Rascals and Spanky and Our Gang. Then later it changed to Curly of The Three Stooges, Fred Flinstone, Gilligan and Gomer Pyle.
Then He Man, Thundercats, Teenage Super Ninja Turtles and Power Rangers. Then Pokeman. Now I'm into Barney, Big Bird and Chucky Cheese.
Aaah, the good old days.............
 
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Ukiah

Guest
HomeGuru said:
When I was a kid my heroes were Superman, Batman and Robin, Bozo the Clown, The Incredible Hulk and all the Superheroes, Little Rascals and Spanky and Our Gang. Then later it changed to Curly of The Three Stooges, Fred Flinstone, Gilligan and Gomer Pyle.
Then He Man, Thundercats, Teenage Super Ninja Turtles and Power Rangers. Then Pokeman. Now I'm into Barney, Big Bird and Chucky Cheese.
Aaah, the good old days.............



You forgot Sesame Street and Big Bird, oh, oh, the Snuffaluffagus is my favorite! I'll watch every now and then when I see him on there!

And Mr. Rogers Neighborhood! I made believe that I lived there! Just yesterday....

:) Ukiah
 
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Ukiah

Guest
HomeGuru said:
Ukiah, I said Big Bird between the purple dinosaur and the big gray rat.

Ah, so you did, Must be from watching tellitubbies too much, I must have had a flashback to the days when I couldn't read, sorry.


[Edited by Ukiah on 07-23-2001 at 09:47 PM]
 

MySonsMom

Senior Member
You know what I miss the most? I miss the children using their imagination while playing on summer days. I miss not having to buy expensive toys so they have stuff to do.

When I was a kid, *if* I got a toy, I was in heaven. I only had few of them. (and my folks WERE able to afford whatever they wanted) The rest of the time, my friends and I would find our own interesting things to do. Like pretend we were the cast of the *old* Star Trek, and use our Mothers old foundation containers as walkie talkies. Or find an old creek to make our own...etc...Nowadays, look at what our children are doing.

Oh how I miss the past.

MSM
 

HomeGuru

Senior Member
Ukiah, that was funny.

MSM, you are correct. These days the kids can't entertain themselves as they are so dependent on getting amused by hand held and tv top video games/CD players and the like.
 

I AM ALWAYS LIABLE

Senior Member
My response:

That's because, for the most part, "imagination" has been placed into the "scrap heap", being replaced with "I want this, I want that !"

Thank you television advertisers for the ruination of children's imaginations.

And, thank you McDonald's, for replacing romance, googoo eyes, and goofy little kids with pointy heads, with Fast Food - - just "get in, get out". There's no "sipping" Coke or listening to "the Greats" going on there. We now get to listen to Muzak.

IAAL
 

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