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Notevenmine

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I own my home and my boyfriend lives with me, I agreed to let his two teenage daughters move in with us to attend school here in Florida, they were living in CA, one was kicked out of school and the other was missing a lot of time and headed down the wrong track. Prior to them coming my boyfriend and I had an agreement that if it was not working out with them they would go back to CA with their mother. I have had so many issues with these girls and both their parents, I get no support and their is no discipline yet I'm the one whose life is mostly affected by these girls. They dont listen, they do whatever they want whenever they want, I told them I dont want nobody over when I'm not home they bring people over anyway. I told them nobody sleeps over, I wake to kids here. They dont do a damn thing to help around the house, I have tried given them chores and responsibilities they dont do them, they get suspended from school and no discipline, they have failed classes and no discipline is taken. They leave trash on the floor in their rooms, dont clean up after themselves, they do disrespectful things to pick me off, and I get no back up from their father because he is too worried that if he disciplines them they won't like him. I have had enough. I packed the one girls things up last month and through her out, my boyfriend begged me to let her back in to finish school and graduate, said she would be on her own the day she graduates because she dont want to go back to CA. She graduated 2 weeks ago and she is still here, still not following the rules of the house and I get ignored when I say she has to leave. The other daughter was suppose to go back with her mother last week when she came to attend the other ones graduation, but she didnt have money for her ticket, now we have to purchase it, but ironically he is saying he dont have the money right now, and the daughter is saying I dont want to go back right now. What can I do, I want and need them both out right now, boyfriend can go too. I want my house back and peace.
 


LdiJ

Senior Member
I own my home and my boyfriend lives with me, I agreed to let his two teenage daughters move in with us to attend school here in Florida, they were living in CA, one was kicked out of school and the other was missing a lot of time and headed down the wrong track. Prior to them coming my boyfriend and I had an agreement that if it was not working out with them they would go back to CA with their mother. I have had so many issues with these girls and both their parents, I get no support and their is no discipline yet I'm the one whose life is mostly affected by these girls. They dont listen, they do whatever they want whenever they want, I told them I dont want nobody over when I'm not home they bring people over anyway. I told them nobody sleeps over, I wake to kids here. They dont do a damn thing to help around the house, I have tried given them chores and responsibilities they dont do them, they get suspended from school and no discipline, they have failed classes and no discipline is taken. They leave trash on the floor in their rooms, dont clean up after themselves, they do disrespectful things to pick me off, and I get no back up from their father because he is too worried that if he disciplines them they won't like him. I have had enough. I packed the one girls things up last month and through her out, my boyfriend begged me to let her back in to finish school and graduate, said she would be on her own the day she graduates because she dont want to go back to CA. She graduated 2 weeks ago and she is still here, still not following the rules of the house and I get ignored when I say she has to leave. The other daughter was suppose to go back with her mother last week when she came to attend the other ones graduation, but she didnt have money for her ticket, now we have to purchase it, but ironically he is saying he dont have the money right now, and the daughter is saying I dont want to go back right now. What can I do, I want and need them both out right now, boyfriend can go too. I want my house back and peace.

You follow the procedures to evict your boyfriend and his children. You start by giving them a 30 day notice to move out.
 

Zigner

Senior Member, Non-Attorney
You follow the procedures to evict your boyfriend and his children. You start by giving them a 30 day notice to move out.
Why 30 days? Doesn't Florida law allow for 15 days?

EDIT: Let me be more direct. Only a 15 day notice is required.
 
I may take some flak from the other members, but...
You are dealing with teenage girls, so contact your cable/satellite service and have them suspend your TV service for a couple of months. If you get the internet but not TV on a cable service put a password on your router to disable the Wi-Fi. Eat out for a while and don't re-stock the larder or the fridge.
Tell them plain and simple to leave. With no food, internet or TV, they may realize you are serious and take the hint.
 

LdiJ

Senior Member
Why 30 days? Doesn't Florida law allow for 15 days?

EDIT: Let me be more direct. Only a 15 day notice is required.

Thank you for the correction. I forgot that FL is only 15 days. I think it would really be hard to find a new place in 15 days.
 

Zigner

Senior Member, Non-Attorney
I may take some flak from the other members, but...
You are dealing with teenage girls, so contact your cable/satellite service and have them suspend your TV service for a couple of months. If you get the internet but not TV on a cable service put a password on your router to disable the Wi-Fi. Eat out for a while and don't re-stock the larder or the fridge.
Tell them plain and simple to leave. With no food, internet or TV, they may realize you are serious and take the hint.
The OP is dealing with the jellyfish of a dad (apologizes to jellyfish) just as much as with the beautiful young women they have brought in to the home.
 

commentator

Senior Member
Remember who you should be angry at. Not the girls, HIM. Mr. Spineless here who is playing on your sympathies. Really, it's like your house. But not only have you got him, you've got his two daughters, none of whom I suspect do any chores, make any contributions, follow any rules you make, or pay any attention to you or your wants and needs. While it would be a certified pain in the butt to cancel your cable, which I bet you are paying for, I'd certainly fix it so they can't have wi-fi (this goes for boyfriend too.) Enough is enough. Don't let him wheedle you with a big hard luck story about how he can't find another place. I have done, while moving for jobs, etc, and it is totally possible to get another place within 15 days. Maybe he'll find another willing woman with a house.
 

LdiJ

Senior Member
I may take some flak from the other members, but...
You are dealing with teenage girls, so contact your cable/satellite service and have them suspend your TV service for a couple of months. If you get the internet but not TV on a cable service put a password on your router to disable the Wi-Fi. Eat out for a while and don't re-stock the larder or the fridge.
Tell them plain and simple to leave. With no food, internet or TV, they may realize you are serious and take the hint.

That may not work as well as you think. All they need are cell phones with good internet and they are back in business. Heck, they may already have them...and dad can easily provide food. There is no indication here that dad isn't gainfully employed.

Nope, I think that official notice to move out and eviction if they don't is the way to go.
 
Remember who you should be angry at. Not the girls, HIM. Mr. Spineless here who is playing on your sympathies. Really, it's like your house. But not only have you got him, you've got his two daughters, none of whom I suspect do any chores, make any contributions, follow any rules you make, or pay any attention to you or your wants and needs. While it would be a certified pain in the butt to cancel your cable, which I bet you are paying for, I'd certainly fix it so they can't have wi-fi (this goes for boyfriend too.) Enough is enough. Don't let him wheedle you with a big hard luck story about how he can't find another place. I have done, while moving for jobs, etc, and it is totally possible to get another place within 15 days. Maybe he'll find another willing woman with a house.
Not cancel the cable, have the service suspended the same as if you were going on a 6 month vacation.
 

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