landlord51
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
Hi,
I’m POA for an aunt who was just recently moved to a nursing home. I’m her only family survivor. Right now the Medicaid application is pending since she’s been there only a few weeks. I’ve gotten very inconsistent instructions on what to do about funeral and burial costs. The welfare office (though they haven’t said specifically) won’t allow the continuation of the policy and forces the person to cash it at face value. The face value is about $3,000, but the actual value is around $12,000. I suspect the policy was paid into for about 30 years and was always intended for funeral/burial purposes. So in order to pay for a respectable burial (which is closer to 10K), the face value plus her other assets will have to cover for this.
Some have suggested opening a separate account for this. But then who looks after it? Me? I hear Pennsylvania allows 11K for these expenses. But I don’t know what this means – how do they “allow” it? They mean, they’ll cut a check to cover costs?
QUESTION: Do I hire lawyer to “look after” an account like this? I don’t know what to do. I haven’t even cashed in the policy and now another bill is due this month. No one – neither the welfare officer nor the nursing home has given me a straight answer on this. Do I trust the state of Pennsylvania to make sure the money is put aside to be used properly, or have I relinquished her right to a decent burial and funeral for my loved one because she’s in a state-funded facility? That is, unless I pay for it.
Thanks for any advice or comments.
Hi,
I’m POA for an aunt who was just recently moved to a nursing home. I’m her only family survivor. Right now the Medicaid application is pending since she’s been there only a few weeks. I’ve gotten very inconsistent instructions on what to do about funeral and burial costs. The welfare office (though they haven’t said specifically) won’t allow the continuation of the policy and forces the person to cash it at face value. The face value is about $3,000, but the actual value is around $12,000. I suspect the policy was paid into for about 30 years and was always intended for funeral/burial purposes. So in order to pay for a respectable burial (which is closer to 10K), the face value plus her other assets will have to cover for this.
Some have suggested opening a separate account for this. But then who looks after it? Me? I hear Pennsylvania allows 11K for these expenses. But I don’t know what this means – how do they “allow” it? They mean, they’ll cut a check to cover costs?
QUESTION: Do I hire lawyer to “look after” an account like this? I don’t know what to do. I haven’t even cashed in the policy and now another bill is due this month. No one – neither the welfare officer nor the nursing home has given me a straight answer on this. Do I trust the state of Pennsylvania to make sure the money is put aside to be used properly, or have I relinquished her right to a decent burial and funeral for my loved one because she’s in a state-funded facility? That is, unless I pay for it.
Thanks for any advice or comments.