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Isis1

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ezmarelda

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i have to admit i did giggle in understanding. but in reality, no parent should ever threaten something they can't carry out legally. and i'd bet my last dollar, that mom has let things get way out of hand that she felt the need to resort to such drastic measures.

agreed...and i giggled too;)
 

Just Blue

Senior Member
My mother kicked my twin brother out of the car when we were about...8 or 10...He was being a WICKED PITA!! He had to walk home (about 2 miles).

If she did this today she would be arrested for it...but back then you could endanger your kids...:rolleyes:
 

Isis1

Senior Member
Don't threaten punishments you are not prepared to carry out.

bummer! i always threaten the baby i'm going to smother her in garlic and butter. i've threatened the 11 year old to cut him at the knees so he'll never be taller then me. i've told the 7 year old that i was going to pull out his toe-nails one by one if he didn't give me a hug before school. i think i'm always threatening the 2 year old of sitting on him if he didn't sit still while i'm dressing him.....


there's alot of threats in my house.....:(
 
Well whats sad is there was a preteen boy in another state. The father said go ahead you dont like it leave. He left on his bicycle and he was found later but unfortantley not alive. I felt so sad. These days you have to remember children fear what they dont know and also they dont know about the bad people who are out there that are worse than a parent scolding.

On the other hand there was a story I saw the other night about a father who electricuted his 3, 8 year olds and 2 other children with a dog collar. I cant recall the other two ages and thankfully they are with their mother now. Gosh I hope they do the same to him!
 

mommyof4

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bummer! i always threaten the baby i'm going to smother her in garlic and butter. i've threatened the 11 year old to cut him at the knees so he'll never be taller then me. i've told the 7 year old that i was going to pull out his toe-nails one by one if he didn't give me a hug before school. i think i'm always threatening the 2 year old of sitting on him if he didn't sit still while i'm dressing him.....


there's alot of threats in my house.....

I regularly threaten to duct tape my children to the ceiling. I also threaten to hang them by their toes. :D

My kids know I'm serious when no threats are being made. They get ONE chance to knock off whatever it is they are doing that is driving me batty. If they don't use that chance, I just handle the situation right then. I never back down. Funnily enough...this works.;)
 

wileybunch

Senior Member
Well whats sad is there was a preteen boy in another state. The father said go ahead you dont like it leave. He left on his bicycle and he was found later but unfortantley not alive. I felt so sad. These days you have to remember children fear what they dont know and also they dont know about the bad people who are out there that are worse than a parent scolding.
The boy fell out of the tree. That is sad. Any time a child dies it's sad and I imagine his dad feels terribly now. But, how many kids have stomped off, quite of their own doing, to "run away" over some silly thing. It happens in most houses across the country that a child does this when they are young and you just don't expect something terrible to happen. :mad: I know my son pulled this and we were frantic when we couldn't find him and all the time he was hiding on one side of our house in a spot we didn't look in and enjoyed that we couldn't find him. :rolleyes:
 

LdiJ

Senior Member
The boy fell out of the tree. That is sad. Any time a child dies it's sad and I imagine his dad feels terribly now. But, how many kids have stomped off, quite of their own doing, to "run away" over some silly thing. It happens in most houses across the country that a child does this when they are young and you just don't expect something terrible to happen. :mad: I know my son pulled this and we were frantic when we couldn't find him and all the time he was hiding on one side of our house in a spot we didn't look in and enjoyed that we couldn't find him. :rolleyes:

Years ago, when I was a young adult we were having dinner at my parent's home and some family friends were there too. Their son was 5 and he was complaining and wanting to go home. His father told him, "well, then you better start walking because we aren't going home yet".

About 30 minutes later we were all frantically searching for the child because he disappeared. He had taken his father's words literally, and had started walking for home. Luckily he had only gotten a few blocks when a woman noticed him and stopped him. She sat down on the grass with him and told him that they would just wait for his parents to show up.

Today, nobody would do that. Nobody would sit down with a child and wait for the parents to find them...even though that's the very best thing to do if you are "lost". Instead, people get the police involved, and then CPS gets involved, and then suddenly good parents are being "investigated" or even charged with neglect.

I realize that things are different today, but children aren't. Some of them are still going to escape from the most vigilent of parents.
 

truebluemd

Senior Member
In this day I dont see how any parent would do such a careless thing. It was only a couple of years ago we saw on video in florida where the teen who was leaving her friends home was kidnapped in broad daylight and later found (not alive).

I guess the mom in this case felt since she was near home and they were together they would be fine. Still, a silly move. Of course when kids test parents, some parents tend to test them too.
 

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