I like how this OP glosses over the fact that the police have been called to her house numerous times but she and her boyfriend are innocent of any domestic violence charges being leveled against them. What was going on in that house that the police had to come there so many times? Talk about denial.
This woman doesn't give a damn about her child. All she cares about is herself and her loser boyfriend. OP, do you really think your child should be with parents who can't control their tempers? Why should your baby be exposed to your drama that is so bad the cops keep getting called on you?
You and your boyfriend are selfish and immature and neither are putting the needs of the child you two made before your own selfish wants and desires.
Considering the fact you don't know much I will enlighten you. My fiancé is or atleast was an alcoholic. When the police had been called to our home, our baby was NEVER there in the past. She was with my parents or I was pregnant and the police weren't really called.
I did not do anything wrong in this situation, but I was charged because of ignorance. I did what I thought was the right thing and because the case is still open I will not post anything "incriminating" regarding the case.
However, I fought like hell to make sure my baby made it here safely as I had to demand a C-section and her cord was around her neck twice, a true knot, and Velamentous Cord Insertion which the "experts" assured me was not there anymore. I am the reason she is here alive today. I am a stay at home Mom. My life revolves around making sure she is fed, wearing a clean diaper even if that means I change it TOO much, giving her my undivided attention and for the first 3 months of her life I exclusively breastfed her.
She is the happiest baby in the world, everyone always comments on how happy she is. She has never been sick until this whole thing happened she got a cold at my parents house because I was unable as her MOTHER to protect her from someone spreading their sickness to her. My parents want her to come home with me. They know I am a good Mom. I shouldn't have to exclusively explain that we live in a clean home and 99% of the time there was no fighting, etc., On the occasion he came home drunk, I usually just took care of our daughter as if he wasn't there and I wouldn't even let him hold her standing up if I thought he had drank more than a few beers.
Where do you get off on telling me what situation is going in our home? My baby is safe at home or I wouldn't be doing everything possible to get her back. If he drinks when he gets out of jail, I already told him I will leave him. He needed to hit rock bottom to stop drinking and I am certain he has.
Thank you.
