Parent rights while married

[paulanderson]

My wife and I have spent Christmas with her family for 14 of the past 15 years. I have asked, year after year, that we divide the holidays fairly among our families, but to no avail. We have two children, ages 5 and 9. Two years ago, we missed one last chance to spend Christmas with my father, who passed away shortly there after. Last Christmas, I spent Christmas with my mother so she would not be alone. My wife refused to come.

My wife wants to take our kids to her mother's again this year, leaving me home alone. At this point I not only feel like a victim at her mother's place, but also believe we need to start functioning as the independent family that we are, while we still have the chance. My patience is wearing thin.

My question is this: Can I stop my wife from taking our kids to her mother's house Christmas eve?

Your response and assistance would be greatly appreciated!

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

My response:

Yes.

You merely say,

"Dearest, and love of my life, if you think you're crossing that threshold on Christmas Eve with my children this year, you're sorely mistaken. Me and my friend, .44 Magnum, say that the kids are going with me to my mother's house this year. Any complaints ?"

Obviously, your wife hated your father, and still intensely dislikes your mother.

IAAL