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touchofgrey

Junior Member
What is the name of your state? CA
Many of you know my story so I don't want to bore you with details. I work in an independent school. My fitness to be a teacher has recently been called into question because I was assaulted in what, some consider to be, questionable circumstances. Today at a staff meeting, the president of the board of directors began to tell other members of the staff what occured at a closed session of the board when the subject of my continued employment was introduced. I protested and asked him not to share that information. He ignored my protestations and proceeded to tell my colleagues that there were a few members of the board that demanded that I be fired. (This, by the way, was the minority opinion). Legally speaking, is there anything wrong with the prez of the board sharing this information from a closed meeting with my colleagues even after I asked him not to?
 
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CLOE3

Junior Member
hi grey

im sorry, i dont know the whole story,, i am new here , and not quite sure how to get the original thread......i feel that if you told him not to speak about it, and he ignored you,,, not a good thing!!!! you have rights to privacy...remember,, i dont really know the whole story!!!! was this meeting about the problem of you teaching at the school??? .... you may want to get in touch with an attorney.... god bless,, cloe
 

Shay-Pari'e

Senior Member
CLOE3 said:
im sorry, i dont know the whole story,, i am new here , and not quite sure how to get the original thread......i feel that if you told him not to speak about it, and he ignored you,,, not a good thing!!!! you have rights to privacy...remember,, i dont really know the whole story!!!! was this meeting about the problem of you teaching at the school??? .... you may want to get in touch with an attorney.... god bless,, cloe


Not only are you wrong, but you seem confident enough with your postings, that you would know how to look up the history of a persons posts.

TOG...unfortunately just because you asked him not to bring it up , and he did , is not against the law, nor a invasion of your privacy in this situation.
 

rmet4nzkx

Senior Member
TOG,

I'm sorry I missed your posts yesterday and the day before. They came at times when I wasn't on the forum. As I told you before, I'm not stalking you, the post came up at a time when I checked the board and because someone had answered your question.

Now that we have that out of the way, please answer some questions. When did this happen? Not that it really matters to much, more trying to understand why you insist on giving vague or circumspect facts while at the same time expecting specific advice which is not forthcoming.

You posted the same question on Tuesday so when did this occur Monday or Tuesday? It didn't happen Yesterday, Wednesday, or is it just a hypothetical question?

When you first asked your question about the aspects of privacy in employment, Beth, one of our HR specialists kindly and accurately answered your question, there was no reason for further responses. Instead of thanking her for taking the time to answer your question, you ignore her because it is not what you want to hear and you start another thread hoping that by doing so, someone ignorant of the facts of your case and ignorant of the law might answer your question and provide you with the advice you want to hear. These behaviors are first of all, disrespectful and secondly, manipulative. You know how this forum works, so I am interested in hearing your answer without you starting another thread or deleting this so there is no record of it as you have done with others.

Just in case you thought that Megan was going to tell you what you want to hear, forget that, she is no longer here, she was banned because of her inappropriate behaviors.

https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=245929
touchofgrey said:
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? California
Many of you know my story so I don't want to bore you with details. I work in an independent school. My fitness to be a teacher has recently been called into question because I was assaulted in what, some consider to be, questionable circumstances. Today at a staff meeting, the president of the board of directors began to tell other members of the staff what occured at a closed session of the board when the subject of my continued employment was introduced. I protested and asked him not to share that information. He ignored my protestations and proceeded to tell my colleagues that there were a few members of the board that demanded that I be fired. (This, by the way, was the minority opinion). Legally speaking, is there anything wrong, with the prez of the board sharing this information from a closed meeting with my colleagues even after I asked him not to?
Beth3 said:
Legally speaking, is there anything wrong, with the prez of the board sharing this information from a closed meeting with my colleagues even after I asked him not to? If you're asking whether there are any laws that require an employer to keep this information confidential, the answer is no. Whether the Board's bylaws require this information to be kept private is something I can't answer but it's very unlikely that they do.

Now for the answers to your question, again: The board of directors is your employer, they have a right to the information, since it affects your employment and further affects the health and safety of the children you teach. It is the fiduciary duty as a school to examine your fitness, once again, as a teacher. You were MIA again, without adequate excuse, this is not a private matter. You demonstrated poor judgment, repeatedly. You made a police report, why don't you want the school to investigate the facts if you are an innocent victim?

The president of the board did nothing wrong. They met in closed session as appropriate to discuss sensitive personnel issues, thus your privacy was honored. According to you, a few members (minority opinion) already wanted your termination(resignation). That is an accurate fact and not slander/defamation it is, by your own admission, fact.

What have you done since posting about these issues?
What was the outcome of this meeting by the board?
Have you contacted anyone about the victim witness program?
Have you sought a neuropsychological assessment of your head injury?
Have you begun a search for another teaching contract?
Have you contacted the Department of Rehabilitation?

If you find another teaching contract and resign, you won't have a blemish on your teaching career, however I highly doubt that something won't happen again in the future.

You are, self-centered, impolite, immature, lack appropriateness and repeatedly exercise poor judgment, these are not qualities for a teacher.
You also, don't seem to be open to advice.
 
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Obnoxious1

Guest
Even if you can get someone on this forum to agree that you have been wronged it will not change the facts.

I'm actually relieved to see that you were exposed, I have children and I want to know who is teaching them.
 
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Obnoxious1

Guest
CLOE3 said:
im sorry, i dont know the whole story,, i am new here , and not quite sure how to get the original thread......i feel that if you told him not to speak about it, and he ignored you,,, not a good thing!!!! you have rights to privacy...remember,, i dont really know the whole story!!!! was this meeting about the problem of you teaching at the school??? .... you may want to get in touch with an attorney.... god bless,, cloe

How in the heckles do you get what you wrote out of this:

The right of the people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no Warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by Oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized.

:confused:
 

BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
Obnoxious1 said:
How in the heckles do you get what you wrote out of this:

The right of the people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no Warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by Oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized.

:confused:
And, of course, this has nothing to do with anything. The fact is, the information was NOT private, the employer (or anyone else for that matter) has not legal restriction to sharing the information and unless the information share was false on it's face and the poster can prove 'intent' to harm, there is no case for anything here.
 
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Obnoxious1

Guest
BelizeBreeze said:
And, of course, this has nothing to do with anything. The fact is, the information was NOT private, the employer (or anyone else for that matter) has not legal restriction to sharing the information and unless the information share was false on it's face and the poster can prove 'intent' to harm, there is no case for anything here.


I was just curious. I openly admit that I'm trying to learn, and that I don't know :)
 
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seniorjudge

Guest
touchofgrey said:
What is the name of your state? CA
Many of you know my story so I don't want to bore you with details. I work in an independent school. My fitness to be a teacher has recently been called into question because I was assaulted in what, some consider to be, questionable circumstances. Today at a staff meeting, the president of the board of directors began to tell other members of the staff what occured at a closed session of the board when the subject of my continued employment was introduced. I protested and asked him not to share that information. He ignored my protestations and proceeded to tell my colleagues that there were a few members of the board that demanded that I be fired. (This, by the way, was the minority opinion). Legally speaking, is there anything wrong with the prez of the board sharing this information from a closed meeting with my colleagues even after I asked him not to?
My fitness to be a teacher has recently been called into question because I was assaulted in what, some consider to be, questionable circumstances.

Can you be assaulted in unquestionable circumstances?
 

panzertanker

Senior Member
seniorjudge said:
My fitness to be a teacher has recently been called into question because I was assaulted in what, some consider to be, questionable circumstances.

Can you be assaulted in unquestionable circumstances?
Sure, You go to jail, and make the ringleader mad. He assaults you. No question about that assault!
Otherwise, I agree with you....
:)
 

CLOE3

Junior Member
wow

i didnt plan on being jumped on,, like i said,, i am knew here...... ok,, now i would like the details... sorry i didnt research first,, geeze......i was just going by that post!! thats all..... ok,, so could i have the details please??? cloe
 

Veronica1228

Senior Member
CLOE3 said:
i didnt plan on being jumped on,, like i said,, i am knew here...... ok,, now i would like the details... sorry i didnt research first,, geeze......i was just going by that post!! thats all..... ok,, so could i have the details please??? cloe
CLOE3, I've noticed that you have been posting in the Slander/Defamation forum a lot. I find this interesting since just a couple of days ago you thought that a Collection Agent calling your Mother and saying that she shouldn't use the excuse of not understanding a contract she signed because she is Brittish was slander. I had to explain to you what slander was and point out that what your mother was experiencing sounded more like harrassment.

How did you become an expert on the subject in just two days?

https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=245806
 

CLOE3

Junior Member
veronica

i will not argue with you,, i have posted on many forums, as im sure you also do,, or, at least have the right to.....i was just telling my story,, thats all..... i have done much research since yesterday,, i have learned a lot..... i am not an expert........ why are you even interested about where i post???? i thought the whole reason of having these forums was to ask questions and tell our stories.. thats all i have done... did i offend you in some way?? if so,, please let me know!!!!! we all have a right to post on these forums,,,, we all have the right to give advice.. dont we?????? maybe i missed something!!!! god bless you hun,,, cloe
 

rmet4nzkx

Senior Member
CLOE3 said:
i didnt plan on being jumped on,, like i said,, i am knew here...... ok,, now i would like the details... sorry i didnt research first,, geeze......i was just going by that post!! thats all..... ok,, so could i have the details please??? cloe
Well you can research this like most of us have, you should do that before answering when you don't know what is happening or don't know the law. If you had known the law, you could have ansered the question re privacy without any research. Unfortunately we cannot provide you with the deleted threads that contained many of the facts and admissions, however that fact alone should sent up a red flag as to the credibility of TOG.

If you click on his name and then "Find all posts by Touchofgrey" then you will find what remain of his posts and if you click on profile you will find all the threads, in addition there was a locked thread that addressed this problem which he asked to be deleted.

It is very difficult when a person won't be honest about what happened and refuses to do anything to help their situation.
 

touchofgrey

Junior Member
rmet4nzkx said:
TOG,

I'm sorry I missed your posts yesterday and the day before. They came at times when I wasn't on the forum. As I told you before, I'm not stalking you, the post came up at a time when I checked the board and because someone had answered your question.

You are, self-centered, impolite, immature, lack appropriateness and repeatedly exercise poor judgment, these are not qualities for a teacher.
You also, don't seem to be open to advice.

The only computer I use these days is a laptop which is owned by the school. Unfortunately, I haven't had access to this computer for the past few days as the Tech experts at school have been updating the operating system and installing new software onto it. I appreciate the comments in this thread that are on topic as they help me understand that what the Prez did is not inappropriate. That's really all I wanted to know. As far as the rest of the stuff that's being said, well, I guess we all have to accept some responsibility for the things we say or do. Thanks for sharing.
 

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