Question for the adoptee

[katnsam]

We are going through a custody battle w/husband ex wife his adopted mother is getting in the middle,because my husband is old enough to know that he has been having his chains pulled by his adoptive parents and now they want his daughter as their own. They mention that their adoptive son in his ex's court papers that they are his biological parents. Just because they adopted him does that give them the right to be biological parents? I know the answer I think but just need confirmation. We have found his biological parents!!!!!

 

[MySonsMom]

We are going through a custody battle w/husband ex wife his adopted mother is getting in the middle,because my husband is old enough to know that he has been having his chains pulled by his adoptive parents and now they want his daughter as their own. They mention that their adoptive son in his ex's court papers that they are his biological parents. Just because they adopted him does that give them the right to be biological parents? I know the answer I think but just need confirmation. We have found his biological parents!!!!!

I'm a bit confused but I do know one thing for sure...The adoptive parents are the legal parents and have all of the rights JUST AS IF THEY WERE THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS. The bio parents have NO rights to the child they gave up for adoption. So yes, the adoptive parents are considered in every way other than biology the parents of the child.

 

[katnsam]

Ok we are going through a child custody battle and his adopted mom is interfering with his custodial rights and his child. She is in good with my husbands ex-wife and she lets them see the kids whenever and not my husband. She states on a order to show cause declaration bad mouthing my husband (her adopted son) that he has had drinking problems and he is an alcoholic. And she is his biological mother. Now should she have not stated that she was his adopter mother in her declaration? That is the question? Thank you for your reply very much appreciated

 

[MySonsMom]

Ok we are going through a child custody battle and his adopted mom is interfering with his custodial rights and his child. She is in good with my husbands ex-wife and she lets them see the kids whenever and not my husband. She states on a order to show cause declaration bad mouthing my husband (her adopted son) that he has had drinking problems and he is an alcoholic. And she is his biological mother. Now should she have not stated that she was his adopter mother in her declaration? That is the question? Thank you for your reply very much appreciated

I'm not sure if there is any recourse to her claiming that he is his biological son or adopted son. I'm not sure why she felt that she needed to say that because it doesn't matter if he is her adopted or biological son, makes no difference whatsoever. In that note, it probably wouldn't do you any good to linger on that since the outcome will not be different if biological or adoptive.

Document everything for the custody hearing. All in all, what the Mother does with the child in her care is her decision. (letting the child spend time with Grandma) Sounds as though your hubby feels that if the child is not with the Mother at all times that the child should be with him..And that doesn't happen.

Have your hubby fight for his rights as a Father and gain visitation of the child. If able go for joint legal so that he can access all records of the child without the consent from the Mother and be a part of the major decision making of the child.

Good luck!

 

[katnsam]

Thanks

Thank you for your advice. They are probably wanting us to get off track and go on about his mother and not address the situation at hand so your advice is very helpful Thanks again