arosado1970
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What is the name of your state?NC
Hubby divorced in 1993. In one section it states "The Wife agrees to assume adn Husband agrees to accept the debt of $2,737.00 as owed to the Husband. Upon the Wife's completion fo nursing school and subsequent employment, the Wife shal pay to the Husband this amount by reasonable monthly installments. The amount of the these installments shall be determined by the Wife." Now underneath that was a hand-written statement that has been initialed by both him and his ex. It states "payments of $100.00 monthly starting Novemeber 1, 1995 through the court system."
I asked him about this he told me about a situation during their separation where she lied to obtain more in welfare. He was in college and was already paying his obligated CS directly to her. He was keeping a log of when and how much was being paid and had her sign everytime. His lawyer kept the log. SHe filed for welfare and neglected to mention that she was receiving CS. He got pulled in to the office to pay back this money. Confused, he asked if he could call his ex. When he did call her, her first response was "Oh my God, I've been caught." Not the response you would her from an innocent person. She begged him to pay them and she would pay him back. He agreed and had to take out another student loan to to just that. That is why she owes him this money.
Question is...Since it stated that "Upon Wife's completion of nursing school and subsequent employment, the Wife shall pay to the Husband this amount by reasonable monthly installments.", since she never completed nursing school, we have no recourse in getting that money from her, do we?
Any advice on how to get it from her? Thanks in advance!!
An additional note, the lawyer lost the log back then and ever since he has been paying through the court system. That is why he had to pay them the money for the welfare. He had no proof that he had been paying it all.
Hubby divorced in 1993. In one section it states "The Wife agrees to assume adn Husband agrees to accept the debt of $2,737.00 as owed to the Husband. Upon the Wife's completion fo nursing school and subsequent employment, the Wife shal pay to the Husband this amount by reasonable monthly installments. The amount of the these installments shall be determined by the Wife." Now underneath that was a hand-written statement that has been initialed by both him and his ex. It states "payments of $100.00 monthly starting Novemeber 1, 1995 through the court system."
I asked him about this he told me about a situation during their separation where she lied to obtain more in welfare. He was in college and was already paying his obligated CS directly to her. He was keeping a log of when and how much was being paid and had her sign everytime. His lawyer kept the log. SHe filed for welfare and neglected to mention that she was receiving CS. He got pulled in to the office to pay back this money. Confused, he asked if he could call his ex. When he did call her, her first response was "Oh my God, I've been caught." Not the response you would her from an innocent person. She begged him to pay them and she would pay him back. He agreed and had to take out another student loan to to just that. That is why she owes him this money.
Question is...Since it stated that "Upon Wife's completion of nursing school and subsequent employment, the Wife shall pay to the Husband this amount by reasonable monthly installments.", since she never completed nursing school, we have no recourse in getting that money from her, do we?
Any advice on how to get it from her? Thanks in advance!!
An additional note, the lawyer lost the log back then and ever since he has been paying through the court system. That is why he had to pay them the money for the welfare. He had no proof that he had been paying it all.
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