It can not be done unless there is someone willing to take up those rights. Ask again in a few years when you are remarried to Mr. Wonderful.
You appear to meet the other conditions.
HM
One year, Johnny's family was having the "extended family" 4th of July cookout at their home. One of the special treats that year was the lighting of the fireworks (Roman candles, bottle rockets, missile batteries, etc.).
Just before they were to arrive, a cousin called, saying their neighbor's plans had just fallen through, and could they bring the neighbor along to the picnic.
"Sure, the more the merrier!" replied Johnny's dad.
Upon arrival and meeting of their cousin's neighbor, it was discovered that he was a police officer. The father turned as innocently as he could to Johnny, and whispered to him to grab the paper bag of fireworks sitting in the kitchen and hide them somewhere quickly. Johnny disappeared, and the father changed the topic to the food choices for the day.
The visitors had brought some chicken to grill, so the father told them that the gas grill was all set to use out back and to "just turn on the gas and push the ignition button with the lid still closed."
The company headed out to the backyard, as Johnny cames back in through the front door.
The father hurried to Johnny and said "Whew, that was close! That man's a police officer, and he almost saw the fireworks. Did you hide them real well?"
"Oh, yes!" announced Little Johnny, "Nobody will ever think to look in the grill!"
