removing name from a birth certifacite

[leepixley1985]

Arizona
My question is, how would my soon to be husband remove his name from his ex wifes sons birth certificate? he had adopted his ex wifes son when they got married and now he wants to be removed from the BC with him being on it it has caused nothing but problems i hope someone can help me figure this out. thank you.

 

[CourtClerk]

It's very simple. He can't. He adopted these children, they are his children. And what kind of woman are you to call this dude your soon to be husband. Please tell me you don't have kids.

 

[stealth2]

Arizona
My question is, how would my soon to be husband remove his name from his ex wifes sons birth certificate? he had adopted his ex wifes son when they got married and now he wants to be removed from the BC with him being on it it has caused nothing but problems i hope someone can help me figure this out. thank you.

So... you'd like him to walk away from his kids? Because that it who they are - HIS kids.

Ugh.

 

[leepixley1985]

removing name from birth cert

yes i do have children i have 2 and im pregnant with my 3rd which is my soon to be husbands his ex wife has no clue who the father of her son is my fience adopted him years ago when they were married and now all she does is use him and puts hil threw hell just to get her way he is tired of her using him to get her way and wants to get out from under all of this. her poor son has known 5 so called daddys in the past 5 years and he is only 6 she wants him to be removed to so her 5th husband can be the next to adopt her son im not trying to put this kid down beleive me i love the kid to death i raised him for 2 years but she is trying to make thing more complicated then need be all im asking for is some help so my fience my children and myself wont have to have her in our lives.

 

[csi7]

When her new husband does the step-parent adoption, your husband can sign away his parental rights. Would suggest an attorney to ensure your husband understands the legal issues that do not disappear.

 

[leepixley1985]

removing name from BC

no i dont want him to walk away from his kid his ex wife wont let him see her son and has found a new daddy but is taking her time on the whole removing the name so she can continue to use my fience she has made her son stop calling my fience dad she wont let him see her son and wont even let him talk to her son the only reson my fience is still on the BC is so she can use him for whatever she wants if he doesnt answer her phone calls she threatens him with im gonna get you for back child support and youll have all your rights taken away when he is lucky and does get to see his son its only so she can disappear for weeks at a time and have a person to watch the child if it was my choice i would have that child taken from her and raise him myself she doesnt care about the poor kid and i feel sorry for him but im not gonna let my fience be used just so she can have her fun.

 

[stealth2]

And what has your "man" done to parent HIS child?

 

[RRevak]

no i dont want him to walk away from his kid his ex wife wont let him see her son and has found a new daddy but is taking her time on the whole removing the name so she can continue to use my fience she has made her son stop calling my fience dad she wont let him see her son and wont even let him talk to her son the only reson my fience is still on the BC is so she can use him for whatever she wants if he doesnt answer her phone calls she threatens him with im gonna get you for back child support and youll have all your rights taken away when he is lucky and does get to see his son its only so she can disappear for weeks at a time and have a person to watch the child if it was my choice i would have that child taken from her and raise him myself she doesnt care about the poor kid and i feel sorry for him but im not gonna let my fience be used just so she can have her fun.

Seriously OP, punctuation is your friend...use it

 

[leepixley1985]

thank you csi7 but she doesnt plan on doing any of that until aug 2012 she says arizona law wont let her sign any papers until then

 

[RRevak]

thank you csi7 but she doesnt plan on doing any of that until aug 2012 she says arizona law wont let her sign any papers until then

Do understand though that when he signs those rights away and the new hubs adopts, that he will have NO legal rights to the child anymore. That includes visitation. If he wants to see the child, and mom tells him to pound sand, that will be all she wrote. If he stays in good with mom and she's nice enough to let him visit then cool but it will ONLY be out of the goodness of her heart and nothing more. So with that being said, if he really wants to remain part of this kids life then I suggest he REALLY think about this decision he's making.

 

[leepixley1985]

stealth2 my man has done every thing and anything he could for that child he has bought him school close every year he was in school, gave the child a place to live after the child burnt down his mothers house, gave him a place to live when the child got ahold of a gun and shot up the house cuz his mother left him home alone so he didnt get taken away by cps, he has done so much for that child and now the ex wife wont let him even talk to him.

 

[stealth2]

stealth2 my man has done every thing and anything he could for that child he has bought him school close every year he was in school, gave the child a place to live after the child burnt down his mothers house, gave him a place to live when the child got ahold of a gun and shot up the house cuz his mother left him home alone so he didnt get taken away by cps, he has done so much for that child and now the ex wife wont let him even talk to him.

Did he get him any therapy? Does he have visitation orders? If so, has he filed against her for contempt? Really - unless he's actively tried to enforce his rights, he hasn't done much of anything.

 

[leepixley1985]

rrevak he has no perantal rights now he isnt allowed to see or talk to him unless she wants to disappear for weeks at a time and when he doesnt do what she wants when she wants it she threatens to take his prental rights away he only puts up with it cuz he knows once in a ble moon he does get to see his son.

 

[leepixley1985]

Did he get him any therapy? Does he have visitation orders? If so, has he filed against her for contempt? Really - unless he's actively tried to enforce his rights, he hasn't done much of anything.

the only rights he has is seeing his kid he cant do anything with medical for him he has no rights except what she says

 

[stealth2]

rrevak he has no perantal rights now he isnt allowed to see or talk to him unless she wants to disappear for weeks at a time and when he doesnt do what she wants when she wants it she threatens to take his prental rights away he only puts up with it cuz he knows once in a ble moon he does get to see his son.

Then maybe he should look into THAT, rather than walking away from his son.