What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? (CT) My 90 year old father-in-law died in December 2014 after being in a nursing home (self-pay, not Medicaid). He had a reverse mortgage on his second wife’s family homestead that he took out in 2008 as a lump sum. He gave away a lot of the money to his wife’s family before she died in 2011. The 3 heirs in his will are being named as defendants in a foreclosure suit. The Secretary of Housing and Urban Development is also named as a defendant in the suit. These heirs are my husband who was appointed executor of the estate, his father’s brother who was listed as a contingent heir and executor if my husband died before his father died, and a niece of his late wife’s. This niece was listed in the will as “if I shall die while still owning an interest in 112 Hickory Lane, Sunnyville, CT my wife’s niece Louise Jones shall inherit my interest”. Obviously, he thought his house was worth a lot more than it ended up being appraised for. Due to lack of upkeep, the house is financially underwater – about $50,000 underwater. None of his wife's family members are interested in purchasing it although they bitterly complained when we moved dad to an elderly housing community, cleaned out the house and donated the contents to Goodwill and the dump. They were very angry when they found out about the reverse mortgage. The estate is mostly insolvent, except for one 10-year old car that was left to my husband. Any other assets that my father-in-law had were jointly held with my husband an IRA and a small checking account.
It was my understanding that this was a non-recourse loan and the borrower never ends up owing more than the house is worth. But the bank is NOT naming the estate in the foreclosure suit, but refers to the 3 individuals named as “heirs at law” and HUD. I didn’t think that relatives were responsible for their parents’ debts! What role does HUD play in all of this? We have asked the bank to fast track this because we do not want to have anything to do with this house.
It was my understanding that this was a non-recourse loan and the borrower never ends up owing more than the house is worth. But the bank is NOT naming the estate in the foreclosure suit, but refers to the 3 individuals named as “heirs at law” and HUD. I didn’t think that relatives were responsible for their parents’ debts! What role does HUD play in all of this? We have asked the bank to fast track this because we do not want to have anything to do with this house.