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Grandma B
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An Iowa City, IA woman has been arrested for allowing her 13 year old daughter to have sex with a 15 year old boyfriend. She admitted to buying condoms for her on at least two occasions.
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November Rain
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Grandma B said:An Iowa City, IA woman has been arrested for allowing her 13 year old daughter to have sex with a 15 year old boyfriend. She admitted to buying condoms for her on at least two occasions.
She gets what she deserves then, doesn't she?
I AM ALWAYS LIABLE
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My response:
Nearly accurate description, GrandmaB !
And, for those who don't remember "Stacks", here's a little stroll down "Memory Lane" - - A reprise of good ol' "Stacks" !
stacks
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Registered: Jul 2001
Posts: 1
My daughter is 12, almost 13 and i have raised her from day one. Her father was declared her father by default because he didn't show up for the testing. He never asked for visitation and was given none. She has been dating a 17 year old and i have no problem with that the thing is , her father does. He pays no support at all and as i said, has no visitation at all. Is there any way that he can cause problems over her boyfriend and if so other than splitting them up , what can i do about it? And is there anything illegal about them dating in the first place?
AND THEN, IN A LATER POST, "STACKS" COMPLAINS . . .
stacks
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Registered: Jul 2001
Posts: 3
my daughter went to visit her father several months ago and her father told me she was molested by a 21 yr old at his house and he saw this, or so he says, yet did nothing about it. he subsequencely questioned my child in front of six people and says she admitted to the molestation. she has never admitted it to me and swears it didn't happen and her father is who she has been scared to be around the past few months. I don't want her going in to see her father because im afraid that he has done something to her himself. What should i do to keep him away from my child. Im in Ky and i refer to her as my child because i have raised her by myself.
Nearly accurate description, GrandmaB !
And, for those who don't remember "Stacks", here's a little stroll down "Memory Lane" - - A reprise of good ol' "Stacks" !
stacks
Junior Member
Registered: Jul 2001
Posts: 1
My daughter is 12, almost 13 and i have raised her from day one. Her father was declared her father by default because he didn't show up for the testing. He never asked for visitation and was given none. She has been dating a 17 year old and i have no problem with that the thing is , her father does. He pays no support at all and as i said, has no visitation at all. Is there any way that he can cause problems over her boyfriend and if so other than splitting them up , what can i do about it? And is there anything illegal about them dating in the first place?
AND THEN, IN A LATER POST, "STACKS" COMPLAINS . . .
stacks
Junior Member
Registered: Jul 2001
Posts: 3
my daughter went to visit her father several months ago and her father told me she was molested by a 21 yr old at his house and he saw this, or so he says, yet did nothing about it. he subsequencely questioned my child in front of six people and says she admitted to the molestation. she has never admitted it to me and swears it didn't happen and her father is who she has been scared to be around the past few months. I don't want her going in to see her father because im afraid that he has done something to her himself. What should i do to keep him away from my child. Im in Ky and i refer to her as my child because i have raised her by myself.
I AM ALWAYS LIABLE
Senior Member
Speaking of the Devil, Look Who's Back !
It's good ol' "Stacks" !
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?postid=182577#post182577
I've copied her latest thread, above, just in case she decides to delete it. I cannot BELIEVE this woman. And, you'll either laugh or cry with her latest incredulous story and nature of this "woman".
If she decides to delete her post, I'll paste my copy of it, here.
IAAL
It's good ol' "Stacks" !
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?postid=182577#post182577
I've copied her latest thread, above, just in case she decides to delete it. I cannot BELIEVE this woman. And, you'll either laugh or cry with her latest incredulous story and nature of this "woman".
If she decides to delete her post, I'll paste my copy of it, here.
IAAL
I AM ALWAYS LIABLE
Senior Member
Well, She Deleted Her Post - - So, As Promised, Here It Is In All Its Glory !
My further response:
Within only a few MINUTES from my above post, Stacks did, in fact, DELETE the following thread. So, for all of you, here it is !
stacks
Junior Member
Registered: Jul 2001
Location:
Posts: 4
slander?????
i live in ky and so does my daughters father, he has called social services on me over things and now he is trying to get me for slander for saying that one of his friends said that he planned to do something to my daughter of a sexual nature and that social services has that information on file and is threatening to put her in foster care or with another relative if we don't cooperate. Is that a slanderous statement? someone please help me out here
08-18-2001 09:55 PM
I AM ALWAYS LIABLE
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Registered: Jan 2000
Location: Los Angeles, California
Posts: 10806
Re: slander?????
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Originally posted by stacks
i live in ky and so does my daughters father, he has called social services on me over things and now he is trying to get me for slander for saying that one of his friends said that he planned to do something to my daughter of a sexual nature and that social services has that information on file and is threatening to put her in foster care or with another relative if we don't cooperate. Is that a slanderous statement? someone please help me out here
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My response:
I can't believe you have the cajones to even come back here, Stacks.
You're the "mother" who doesn't have a problem with the fact that your "12 year old, going on 13" is having sex with a 17 year old boy !
And now, you come back here telling us the above "story", and you want to know if it's "slander" ? You're incredible, lady. TRUTH IS AN ABSOLUTE DEFENSE, Stacks. You're undoubtedly as guilty as sin.
Let me tell you this :
I would love nothing better than to see you locked up, and the key thrown away.
IAAL
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08-18-2001 10:19 PM
My further response:
Within only a few MINUTES from my above post, Stacks did, in fact, DELETE the following thread. So, for all of you, here it is !
stacks
Junior Member
Registered: Jul 2001
Location:
Posts: 4
slander?????
i live in ky and so does my daughters father, he has called social services on me over things and now he is trying to get me for slander for saying that one of his friends said that he planned to do something to my daughter of a sexual nature and that social services has that information on file and is threatening to put her in foster care or with another relative if we don't cooperate. Is that a slanderous statement? someone please help me out here
08-18-2001 09:55 PM
I AM ALWAYS LIABLE
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Registered: Jan 2000
Location: Los Angeles, California
Posts: 10806
Re: slander?????
quote:
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Originally posted by stacks
i live in ky and so does my daughters father, he has called social services on me over things and now he is trying to get me for slander for saying that one of his friends said that he planned to do something to my daughter of a sexual nature and that social services has that information on file and is threatening to put her in foster care or with another relative if we don't cooperate. Is that a slanderous statement? someone please help me out here
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My response:
I can't believe you have the cajones to even come back here, Stacks.
You're the "mother" who doesn't have a problem with the fact that your "12 year old, going on 13" is having sex with a 17 year old boy !
And now, you come back here telling us the above "story", and you want to know if it's "slander" ? You're incredible, lady. TRUTH IS AN ABSOLUTE DEFENSE, Stacks. You're undoubtedly as guilty as sin.
Let me tell you this :
I would love nothing better than to see you locked up, and the key thrown away.
IAAL
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08-18-2001 10:19 PM
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Grandma B
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How funny is that? Weeks of silence, then she pops up within an hour of the start of this thread.
Do you suppose she writes letters, then tears them up as well?
Her mention of social services placing the daughter with yet another relative is food for thought. Like maybe her twin in Iowa City??
Do you suppose she writes letters, then tears them up as well?
Her mention of social services placing the daughter with yet another relative is food for thought. Like maybe her twin in Iowa City??
Grandma B said:An Iowa City, IA woman has been arrested for allowing her 13 year old daughter to have sex with a 15 year old boyfriend. She admitted to buying condoms for her on at least two occasions.
Hey Grandma B, I read about that in our local paper. I live only about 20 miles from Iowa City. I was appauled. She was charged with child endangerment and from what I read, still pleads her innocence. (doesn't feel that she as a Mother was doing anything wrong) No charges have been filed against the 15 yr old boy, but they wrote that he *could* be charged, but nothing has been filed against him yet.
Interesting.....
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Smithy
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If all this lady tells us is true, she lets her twelve year old kid sleep with a seventeen year old kid, doesn't really know whether her dad has visitation rights or not, says that one of her dad's friends made it known that he was going to try to molest her, comes back and said that one of her dad's friends may have actually molested her in front of her father no less, and I ask all of you again: Is there anything we can do to help? It sounds like a bad situation...
I AM ALWAYS LIABLE
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Smithy said:Is there anything we can do to help? It sounds like a bad situation...
My response:
No, for two reasons - -
1. The owner of this site refuses to intercede in such matters. I tried to enlist his help on another matter last year, and he refused.
2. Stacks is anonymous. There's no way, at this point, to identify her.
Survival of the fittest - - nature will have to take its course. Perhaps we shouldn't intercede, letting the "law of the jungle and nature" do whatever it can, or can't.
IAAL
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Smithy
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I understand. It has been bothering me, though, if there really is a daughter and her parents are really like that. It makes me sad. But I understand.
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Grandma B
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Smithy said:I understand. It has been bothering me, though, if there really is a daughter and her parents are really like that. It makes me sad. But I understand.
Sad to say, Smithy, but I'm sure there IS a daughter and her parents really ARE like that, and this case is but one drop in an overrunning bucket. Believe me, there are children living in even worse circumstances.