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MY HUSBAND IS IN PRISON AND I GOT PREGNANT BY ANOTHER MAN. I HAVE NO BAD FEELINGS FOR EITHER ONE OF THEM.I WAS GOING TO GIVE MY DAUGHTER UP FOR ADOPTION AND HAD SIGNED THE PAPERS. THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER SIGNED A DENIAL OF PATERNITY PAPER BECAUSE HE DIDNT WANT TO DEAL WITH ANY OF IT.I CHANGED MY MIND AND MY HUSBAND (WHO DIDNT KNOW I WAS PREGNANT UNTIL I WAS BEING RELEASED FROM HOSPITAL)SAID THAT HE WOULD BE HER FATHER.MY QUESTION IS SHOULD I CONTACT THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER AND LET HIM KNOW I KEPT HER? I HAVE MIXED FEELINGS. ON ONE HAND HE SIGNED A PAPER DENYING HER WHEN HE THOUGHT SHE WAS BEING ADOPTED.ON THE OTHER HAND HE DID CREATE HER AND I THINK HE SHOULD BE OFFERED THE OPTION OF KNOWING HER IF HE CHOSE.MY FAMILY FROM GRANDMOTHER TO HUBBY AND EVERYONE IN BETWEEN SAYS DO NOT CONTACT.BUT I BECAME EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED WITH HIM SO I FEEL GUILTY THAT I HAVENT CALLED HIM.SHE HAS MY HUSBANDS LAST NAME AND HE IS ON HER BIRTH CERTIFICATE.