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tonyziz
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What is the name of your state? california
im in cali. was married in va.i got divorced one year after we were married we divorced in va my ex got a spousal agreement from me to pay her for 3 years.at the time i was in the military and had cheated on her so she threatened to ga to commanding officer i didnt want this to happen as i was planning on staying in the military that is why i agreed to this outragous settlement the first couple of years i paid her then i stopped as my situtation changed i have not heard a word from her since that almost 6 years ago now.last month i recieved a letter from a collection agency say they wanted this money plus the interest it was a large amount of money and no way could i pay it so the company threaten to have come back to va and hold me in contempt till i paid it all which is not going to happen anytime soon.i have remarried and have four kids now i want this to go away but am not sure how to hanldle it is there anyway that i can get this order changed or dropped altogther?she was working we divorced and since has remarreidand has a child.im can really afford to hire a attorney or fly out to va to go to court so if anyone has any advice please let me know.
thank you
im in cali. was married in va.i got divorced one year after we were married we divorced in va my ex got a spousal agreement from me to pay her for 3 years.at the time i was in the military and had cheated on her so she threatened to ga to commanding officer i didnt want this to happen as i was planning on staying in the military that is why i agreed to this outragous settlement the first couple of years i paid her then i stopped as my situtation changed i have not heard a word from her since that almost 6 years ago now.last month i recieved a letter from a collection agency say they wanted this money plus the interest it was a large amount of money and no way could i pay it so the company threaten to have come back to va and hold me in contempt till i paid it all which is not going to happen anytime soon.i have remarried and have four kids now i want this to go away but am not sure how to hanldle it is there anyway that i can get this order changed or dropped altogther?she was working we divorced and since has remarreidand has a child.im can really afford to hire a attorney or fly out to va to go to court so if anyone has any advice please let me know.
thank you