#1 Today, 02:33 PM
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What is the name of your state ? Oregon
So I am going through a custody battle with my x we have a 2 year old daughter together. He has a restaining order on me and he comes to my home and leaves notes on my door to comntact him every time he has her which is thursday night and friday day. He has told somone to tello me that if I dont break up with my boyfriend and sign over custody of my daughter to him he will give the DA a tape that someone gave him. He stated that this tape will put me in jail I dont recall doing anything that would put me in jail let alone remmember anyone recording me so it I had no knowlege of someone recording me. What I want to know is can he do this and what can i do to stop it.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
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What is the name of your state ? Oregon
So I am going through a custody battle with my x we have a 2 year old daughter together. He has a restaining order on me and he comes to my home and leaves notes on my door to comntact him every time he has her which is thursday night and friday day. He has told somone to tello me that if I dont break up with my boyfriend and sign over custody of my daughter to him he will give the DA a tape that someone gave him. He stated that this tape will put me in jail I dont recall doing anything that would put me in jail let alone remmember anyone recording me so it I had no knowlege of someone recording me. What I want to know is can he do this and what can i do to stop it.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Whatever you do, do not violate the order of protection that he has against you. In fact you might want to seek the advice of a local attorney to help you handle getting his order of protection dismissed since he keeps coming to your home. Since he comes to your home, he obviously is not in fear of you.
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He calls my work everday I know that he is not afraid of me he got the restraning order so I would not be able to get my daughter back! My boss is an x cop so I know that will help me in cort I just want to know if he can do anything about the tape in oregon.
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#4 Today, 02:42 PM
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He calls my work everday I know that he is not afraid of me he got the restraning order so I would not be able to get my daughter back! My boss is an x cop so I know that will help me in cort I just want to know if he can do anything about the tape in oregon.
Do not take legal advice from a cop.
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I dont take advise form him I have him on my side that he is calling me at work in court if needed.
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He calls my work everday I know that he is not afraid of me he got the restraning order so I would not be able to get my daughter back! My boss is an x cop so I know that will help me in cort I just want to know if he can do anything about the tape in oregon.
What tape?
According to your first post you have no "memory" of a tape. So...Which is it?
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#7 Today, 03:06 PM
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What is the name of your state ? Oregon
So I am going through a custody battle with my x we have a 2 year old daughter together. He has a restaining order on me and he comes to my home and leaves notes on my door to comntact him every time he has her which is thursday night and friday day. He has told somone to tello me that if I dont break up with my boyfriend and sign over custody of my daughter to him he will give the DA a tape that someone gave him. He stated that this tape will put me in jail I dont recall doing anything that would put me in jail let alone remmember anyone recording me so it I had no knowlege of someone recording me. What I want to know is can he do this and what can i do to stop it.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
What were the criminal/civil grounds that a Judge found necessary to approve the RO?
Do you often have memory lapses?
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We have a long past he made up things he said I slapped him when I was drunk but he wrote I dont remember because I was drunk and he got his friends to write statments
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#9 Today, 03:23 PM
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We have a long past he made up things he said I slapped him when I was drunk but he wrote I dont remember because I was drunk and he got his friends to write statments
So...per the above posting, by you, you do have a history of memory "lapse". So perhaps he DOES have a vid of you doing something that would result in the custodial loss of you child.
Think it's time to quit drinking?
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