Just an update.
Our final adoption hearing is Monday morning and we haven't heard another peep from my ex. I guess he was either blowing smoke, or is planning something dramatic. A mutual friend of our was telling me how the ex was going off on a rant the other night. He got the hearing notice in the mail and it stated he did not have to appear. He told this friend that he may just show up to court anyway to "speak his mind". We'll see how this plays out...
I'll post another update after court Monday!