Suicide Letter

[leech]

What is the name of your state? California

My boyfriend and his childrens mother have joint custody. She is fighting for full custody. My question is: He has a letter that she wrote to him with this included.

"I hate my life I wish all this could stop. Sometimes I wish I could just get into a car accident with my kids so we could all died so I could stop hurting inside. "

The letter is dated back to 1999 but she has made threats recently involving the same issues. Can he use this letter in court or will it be irrelevant because it dates back so far? Thank you.

 

[VeronicaGia]

He may be able to use it along with any current proof he has. But on it's own, it may not do him any good. Unfortunately, no one can tell you how a judge will rule or whether or not a judge will decide if it's too old to use now.

 

[leech]

Thank you. The proof he has now would probably only be hearsay since none of it is documented. Thanks for your input.

 

[prettyredhead]

My boyfriend and his childrens mother have joint custody. She is fighting for full custody. My question is: He has a letter that she wrote to him with this included.

"I hate my life I wish all this could stop. Sometimes I wish I could just get into a car accident with my kids so we could all died so I could stop hurting inside. "

The letter is dated back to 1999 but she has made threats recently involving the same issues. Can he use this letter in court or will it be irrelevant because it dates back so far? Thank you. [/B][/QUOTE]

*** Gee, how about feeling some compassion for people who are hurting. But, no, I forgot we live in the U>S no compassion here for real live people. Just for dead people who didnt feel any pain anymore. Ex 9-11, ect.
How about trying to stop interferring in her life and his. They are not your kids, and you are not married, and I really doubt you are ready to deal with angry children who miss their parents being together. You are not more important than his kids. Grow up and try to help this person instead of driving her to kill herself. Do you think that maybe the pain she feels is becasue she may still love the father of her kids, but their is a huge roadblock called you. Even if HE doesnt love her anymore, they should do what is best for their kids. If that means reconciling, then so be it. Just until the kids are grown. Adults are more and more childish every year. It is bull. No one should be allowed to divorce when kids are involved, as far as I am concerned. But everyone wants to be selfish and only care about themselves and what they want.

 

[Lil Miss Smarty Panties]

Are you really as insane as you sound?? Reconciling for the kids sake until they're adults?? Yeah, ok. That'll work.

 

[stealth2]

A short redhead is an angry redhead.

Yikes.

 

[leech]

Compassion for whom? For the Antichrist who tried to run him over with their daughter in the backseat or the woman who calls and tells him that she hopes his dick falls off and then she'll be satisfied. What she needs is help because she is a danger to him, herself and their daughters.

You are absolutely right they are not my kids, they are his kids and her kids but I doubt you would want to see a female who was dpressed kill herself and take her kids with her.

Noone should be allowed to divorce when kids are involved? Have you gone mad? I would have much rather my parents divorced one another then staying together for their kids and myself having to see arguments between them ALL the time. Two single HAPPY, healthy adults are much better than a dysfunctional married couple. Maybe not in your Candyland though because marriage "fixes" everything?

I never said I was more important this his children, nothing in this lifetime is more important to him than his daughters. You must have Dyslexia and read my post all wrong. It isnt my job to help this woman, SHE needs to do what is right for her children as does he. And if it means taking his daughters out of harms way then SO BE IT.


"Do you think that maybe the pain she feels is becasue she may still love the father of her kids, but their is a huge roadblock called you. Even if HE doesnt love her anymore, they should do what is best for their kids. If that means reconciling, then so be it."

Your point being about how she may STILL love the father of her children? It has nothing to do with anything....shes crazy and those children need to be with the best parent possible. Its not about him and her, its about these little girls.

 

[Lil Miss Smarty Panties]

Maybe all the ex's, new spouses & children should live in a commune together. Maybe we could pull our resources and buy an island and banish ourselves there.

 

[leech]

Maybe all the ex's, new spouses & children should live in a commune together. Maybe we could pull our resources and buy an island and banish ourselves there.

Sounds wonderful. Where do I sign? ; )

Signed,
The Roadblock

 

[Whyte Noise]

Heh

I see why prettyredhead is so up in arms...

"prettyredhead
Junior Member

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Illinois
Posts: 20
Fired for seeing a coworker
What is the name of your state? IL

I was fired from a job a while ago for seeing a married co worker. No company policies prohibit it. NONE. So what can I do, was this legal. I never missed a day, I was a model employee. It was a mutual thing. He owuldnt leave me alone, and I gave in.

prettyredhead
Junior Member

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Illinois
Posts: 20
Ex is incapacipated for a while, what do I do?
What is the name of your state? IL
I have a son, his father was recently beaten very badly, in FL. We live in IL. The "dad' wont be able to work or even leave the hospital for at least 6 months. Where can I get money for child support. He was the victim of a crime, but all I hear is that HE has to start the paper work, when he is very ill and poss. brain damaged. The family hates me and wont include our son in any decision. So I have good reason to believe that they will not put forth any effort to help Tad.(the kid) Where can I apply for loss of c/s benefits. I am very poor, and cant afford an attorney. I do work f/t."

Her ex is a deadbeat, and the married man she had an affair with probably kicked her to the curb....

Her statement about no one being able to divorce when kids are involved probably has to do with the fact that her and her son's father weren't married when he left them.

Issues dear??

 

[CAPrincess]

Maybe she'll get married next time before she starts practicing making babies, MoGal.

 

[jez51]

AH HAH!!

So prettyredhead.....what nasty little comments do you have now.
Talk about the kettle calling the pot black!

 

[leech]

Missouri Gal - Ohmigod. Nice detective work....Thats insane. I think she may be a little bitter.

I wonder if Prettybraindead is related to my boyfriend Ex. =O

 

[kel4377]

Wow, that's great MissouriGal!! Guess she won't be making any further comments!!!

 

[FJ1200guy]

HAVE to get in a word on that redhead chick... and ONLY because of her tag line... heh heh

ahem...

You have sympathy for a woman that is a possible threat to 2 innocent children? Did I read that right?

"Grow up and try to help this person instead of driving her to kill herself." and her kids.

Yup I read that right.

And gee, no one should divorce when kids are involved? Well, did that married guy you were banging have kids? If not, well, I guess it's okay.. after all, "Adults are more and more childish every year" and "...everyone wants to be selfish and only care about themselves and what they want." Lord knows banging a married guy ain't selfish, eh?

Now we know why your head is red... anytime you open your mouth, someone MUST slap you on the head! LOL

Hey does anyone know if I'm spelling HYPOCRITE right?

Later, Short angry FJ1200guy