Momto1yrold
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Support Violation Question in NY
What is the name of your state? NY
Short things first. Ex filed 3rd downward modification first week of May (about 2 weeks after objections were denied). I filed a Violation petition about same time so they set one date for them both. May 30th "fill in judge" set hearing date. Went July 11th. Judge dismissed his petition and granted his request for a court appointed lawyer(last date he declined the offer-but guess he changed his mind). She also set a court date for the violation petition.
This week I check the ny support site, theres a $40 payment in the system. I went to court 7/11 he said he just sent $68 earlier that week and he says $68 is 17% of $400 (what he says he gets off the books). Last payment before this was $15 and posted on July 5th.
He said he sent $68 but only $40 posted? He told her 17% of $400 is $68 and he sent it earlier that week, now thinks he entitled to change his order @@. I didnt think he would do anything he says he would do anyway.
Last yr when he was making $300 a wk gross salary pay (later found out company is owned by relatives), They garnished his check the full amount (a little bit over $100 a wk total). Now he admits to making $400 a week cash off the books, I would think they would find him willfully violating the order? What constitutes "willfull" contempt or non willfull?
I am not whining about the amount im shocked he sent more than $15 but dont tell the court you already sent $68 and then send $40. They can see this in the system. Hes made a handful of payments ranging from $15 to $30 ranging every 12- 20 days. Hes $4500+ behind in arrears.
His financial disclosure shows monthly bills of $4,000+ (cell phones for family-$160, cable, home phone, clothing for step kids, wife, food for family, diapers, formula for his second bio child, credit cards, car insurance for family, mortgage, taxes). He says "6 people-4 step kids(ages 14-21-he stated this in court during last mod), wife and 6 month old son- depend on him in the house"(his words), and says he "is the only person working in house" (again his words).
And if they find him in willfull contempt what kind of punishment would they consider, he has no property(except his house), no bank accounts, no paycheck to add additional arrears on by IEX, his license was already suspended. There isnt much to do to him except threaten him with jail (which doesnt matter anyway I could deal without the occasional $15 or $30 to see him in jail) cause I know if it happened he wouldnt let it happen again.
What is the name of your state? NY
Short things first. Ex filed 3rd downward modification first week of May (about 2 weeks after objections were denied). I filed a Violation petition about same time so they set one date for them both. May 30th "fill in judge" set hearing date. Went July 11th. Judge dismissed his petition and granted his request for a court appointed lawyer(last date he declined the offer-but guess he changed his mind). She also set a court date for the violation petition.
This week I check the ny support site, theres a $40 payment in the system. I went to court 7/11 he said he just sent $68 earlier that week and he says $68 is 17% of $400 (what he says he gets off the books). Last payment before this was $15 and posted on July 5th.
He said he sent $68 but only $40 posted? He told her 17% of $400 is $68 and he sent it earlier that week, now thinks he entitled to change his order @@. I didnt think he would do anything he says he would do anyway.
Last yr when he was making $300 a wk gross salary pay (later found out company is owned by relatives), They garnished his check the full amount (a little bit over $100 a wk total). Now he admits to making $400 a week cash off the books, I would think they would find him willfully violating the order? What constitutes "willfull" contempt or non willfull?
I am not whining about the amount im shocked he sent more than $15 but dont tell the court you already sent $68 and then send $40. They can see this in the system. Hes made a handful of payments ranging from $15 to $30 ranging every 12- 20 days. Hes $4500+ behind in arrears.
His financial disclosure shows monthly bills of $4,000+ (cell phones for family-$160, cable, home phone, clothing for step kids, wife, food for family, diapers, formula for his second bio child, credit cards, car insurance for family, mortgage, taxes). He says "6 people-4 step kids(ages 14-21-he stated this in court during last mod), wife and 6 month old son- depend on him in the house"(his words), and says he "is the only person working in house" (again his words).
And if they find him in willfull contempt what kind of punishment would they consider, he has no property(except his house), no bank accounts, no paycheck to add additional arrears on by IEX, his license was already suspended. There isnt much to do to him except threaten him with jail (which doesnt matter anyway I could deal without the occasional $15 or $30 to see him in jail) cause I know if it happened he wouldnt let it happen again.
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