Yes of course she thinks she is protecting her daughter from me, but I am not here needing to defend myself against my ex wife, and the legal system would not have given us joint custody if they thought I was not a positive, loving influence to my child. I assure you I was always an outstanding father to my daughter, but I don't need to start a thread on a legal advice forum to defend myself. I could tell you my ex is wacky and that is why she is doing this, but I don't see how that is helpful in learning how to proceed with my current circumstances any more than your exploring her motivations.
Anyway, LdiJ suggested I need to get real legal advice, which is probably the simple truth. Sorry for wasting anyone's time here.
