What is the name of your state? Oregon
I am not going to court after all.. The absent bio man in my case signed the papers.. He cut it pretty close as court was this Wed...
This is what is ordered.
Every other Christmas 1 week
Every other spring break
35 days summer( not consecutive)
Mother has sole legal and sole physical custody
Meet half way for visits..
I asked for limited visitation as The bio man has been absent for nine years. This is only limited on paper I will have no problems with other times of visits as they are just getting to know each other. This whole legal situation has been a roller coaster.. I was torn between feeling angry that this man has never showed any interest in being a father for nine years, Then walk in like its know big deal.. On the other and more important hand theres my son.. I will not ruin a relationship he could have with the bio.. Just have to pray the man doesnt bail again for another nine years..
Thanks to those who gave advise Im sure I will be asking for more one day
Shari
I am not going to court after all.. The absent bio man in my case signed the papers.. He cut it pretty close as court was this Wed...
This is what is ordered.
Every other Christmas 1 week
Every other spring break
35 days summer( not consecutive)
Mother has sole legal and sole physical custody
Meet half way for visits..
I asked for limited visitation as The bio man has been absent for nine years. This is only limited on paper I will have no problems with other times of visits as they are just getting to know each other. This whole legal situation has been a roller coaster.. I was torn between feeling angry that this man has never showed any interest in being a father for nine years, Then walk in like its know big deal.. On the other and more important hand theres my son.. I will not ruin a relationship he could have with the bio.. Just have to pray the man doesnt bail again for another nine years..
Thanks to those who gave advise Im sure I will be asking for more one day
Shari