Update

[momself]

What is the name of your state? Missouri

I went to court yesterday for visitation and my ex was granted supervised visitation one hour a day two days a week. The first visitation starts this friday. We go back to court in January.

pthalo---To answer your question on a previous thread, my ex has abused my older children. And I guess by granting visitation, that means the RO was modified; i don't know for sure.

 

[pthalo]

i think that the restraining order for you is probably still in full affect but I don't think there is a way to say that a father cannot see his child until there is DOCUMENTED proof of abuse.. just a question you say that he abused your other children... while this is a terrible thing, i wonder did you call the police and report it or remove him from your home. if not it is my honest opinion that you are as guilty as him....

 

[momself]

It was reported as soon as i found out about it. I notified the police and the child abuse hotline. And we haven't lived together for a couple years now.

DFS is done investigating the case and they are waiting on the police dept. to make their move.

 

[pthalo]

good call and when and if he is convicted it will be tough for him to ever get anything other than supervised visitation...