TinTin1963
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Texas.
My "missing" wife received a notification to appear (along with me) for an AOS interview in a Houston Office. It's the rescheduled interview -per my request months ago. We moved in December 2004 from Wisconsin; therefore, we couldn't (and didn't want to) attended the Febuary 2005 interview in Wisconsin.
At first, I thought that my wife blew up her chance for the AOS process -by accusing me of domestic violence and ran to the shelter in Dallas about 6 months ago. Later I found out that she still loved me and didn't want to make any troubles for me -because she apparently refused to sign the Child Support Order -to collect money from me, and she also refused (or unabled) to make additional charges against me from the shelter -even with the advocates' help. I knew that they (the DV advocates) love to crucify men, but I am very harmless and have no sense of anger nor hatred toward anything or anyone in life. I have a clearn records of financial, criminal and driving -until my wife joined me from overseas in August 2004. I am very scared of her now -because she called the cops on me and had me convicted of a Class A Misdemeanor. It is now on my record, and I have to answer "YES" to the question: "Have you ever convicted of a local, state or federal crime?" It's very scary for me -because companies always do a background check on prospective employees in Texas (and everywhere in the US.)
However, we have a small child of 21-month old together, and I love both of them. Nevertheless, I am so afraid of her false accusation of domestic violence the second time (that's a felony in Texas,) and she has a very bad temper. I tried to contact her and let her know that she must go home and appear for the AOS interview set in August but no reply. Moreover, I just started a part-time job and barely make enough income to meet the financial requirement for her sponsorship. I am desperately looking for a second job (full-time) so that I can take care both of them. I already asked for co-sponsorship from one of her cousins.
In the past 7 years, I was either unemployed or in school full-time. I made little when I was in graduate school, and I had no income last year. My potential to earn good money is there but not yet materialized. What can I do? Should I inform the Immigration that I don't know where my wife is and let reschedule the interview into the future? Should I just postpone the interview 2 years later so that I would have 2 years of income at the time of the future interview? Should I "disappear" to avoid her because I am very scared of her but I love ther though. Is there any trouble for my wife or me if Immigration knows that we are currently separated? I know that the Affidavit of Support is a VERY serious commitment from me to the Government. My wife totally depends on me, but she could always have me accused of violence and collect welfare in the future. If that happens, my life would be totally destroyed and my many years of education (with 4 college degrees and a doctorate) became a waste! I don't know what to do now.
Please advise me of what I should do? BTW, I am a U.S. citizen since 1985.
My "missing" wife received a notification to appear (along with me) for an AOS interview in a Houston Office. It's the rescheduled interview -per my request months ago. We moved in December 2004 from Wisconsin; therefore, we couldn't (and didn't want to) attended the Febuary 2005 interview in Wisconsin.
At first, I thought that my wife blew up her chance for the AOS process -by accusing me of domestic violence and ran to the shelter in Dallas about 6 months ago. Later I found out that she still loved me and didn't want to make any troubles for me -because she apparently refused to sign the Child Support Order -to collect money from me, and she also refused (or unabled) to make additional charges against me from the shelter -even with the advocates' help. I knew that they (the DV advocates) love to crucify men, but I am very harmless and have no sense of anger nor hatred toward anything or anyone in life. I have a clearn records of financial, criminal and driving -until my wife joined me from overseas in August 2004. I am very scared of her now -because she called the cops on me and had me convicted of a Class A Misdemeanor. It is now on my record, and I have to answer "YES" to the question: "Have you ever convicted of a local, state or federal crime?" It's very scary for me -because companies always do a background check on prospective employees in Texas (and everywhere in the US.)
However, we have a small child of 21-month old together, and I love both of them. Nevertheless, I am so afraid of her false accusation of domestic violence the second time (that's a felony in Texas,) and she has a very bad temper. I tried to contact her and let her know that she must go home and appear for the AOS interview set in August but no reply. Moreover, I just started a part-time job and barely make enough income to meet the financial requirement for her sponsorship. I am desperately looking for a second job (full-time) so that I can take care both of them. I already asked for co-sponsorship from one of her cousins.
In the past 7 years, I was either unemployed or in school full-time. I made little when I was in graduate school, and I had no income last year. My potential to earn good money is there but not yet materialized. What can I do? Should I inform the Immigration that I don't know where my wife is and let reschedule the interview into the future? Should I just postpone the interview 2 years later so that I would have 2 years of income at the time of the future interview? Should I "disappear" to avoid her because I am very scared of her but I love ther though. Is there any trouble for my wife or me if Immigration knows that we are currently separated? I know that the Affidavit of Support is a VERY serious commitment from me to the Government. My wife totally depends on me, but she could always have me accused of violence and collect welfare in the future. If that happens, my life would be totally destroyed and my many years of education (with 4 college degrees and a doctorate) became a waste! I don't know what to do now.
Please advise me of what I should do? BTW, I am a U.S. citizen since 1985.