I lost my job a month ago and was approved for unemployment benefits. The approval was based on the decision that I was fired for missing too many days at work, but wasn't warned about my absences, and therefore wasn't able to correct the issue. My appeal is in two days and my confusion is as follows: The employer appealed the decision based on the fact that (1) I wasn't fired, but instead resigned after commenting on my transportation issues, and (2) the corrective counselings given on several occasions regarding my attendance proved my unreliability and unwillingness to perform within guidelines and procedures. Aside from what my employer submitted, the appeal document from DOL states that the issues to be decided during this appeal are (1) whether the discharge was for failure to follow rules or failure to perform, (2) whether I had a good work connected cause to leave the job, (3) whether the employer supplied separation info in a timely manner (as apparently they didn't supply the DOL with any documentation as they were initially asked during the fact finding).
My uncertainty is which battle do I fight....some, all or one? The truth about the incident is that yes, during the earlier stages of my employment, I was tardy quite a few times (they all weren't my fault as there were some last minute schedule changes that should've been vocalized with more than a day's notice). However, tardies did occur quite a bit in my first 90 days of employment. I received one written warning involving all incidents and informed my manager that I share a vehicle, we had some issues with that vehicle, and public transportation was not in my area. I did make significant improvements regarding attendance following the counseling. After that counseling, there were three distinct incidents spread out over the course of the next 3 months involving inclement weather, two funerals and a car accident that collectively led to my day of termination (all legitimate incidents, and in that respective order of occurrence).
That final gloomy day I arrived to work and made a few procedural errors, as I was not too familiar with opening procedures (it wasn't common practice for me to open). The only two people in the building were me and my manager, who approached me to state that she had had enough (in so many words). According to her: my next scheduled workday, pending HR's approval, would ultimately be my last, so I could wait til then, or "I could leave now." (Paraphrasing, but that was the jist of that convo). I took her up on her offer to "leave now". Never once did I mention my transportation being a present issue, even though my manager and I both had conversations about my transportation being a reason for several of my tardies in the past. She mentioned to me in that moment, that this was all about the day of my accident (my last occurrence) since the funeral (the occurrence prior to my accident) had exhausted my PTO and "you knew you didn't have any time left to call in."
In my book, that ultimatum of "leave now or wait til tomorrow when I hear from HR" is quite similar to being told "don't bother coming in to work tomorrow" (as I've been told by my first boss ever in life as a phrase of termination). So I told DOL I was fired for my 3 "uncontrollable absences" without warning.
With this series of events, I am left with multiple questions: (1) Was I, by definition, "fired"? (2) should I focus on the argument of fired-versus-resignation in my preparation for this appeal? (3) should I supply evidence of the absences such as obituaries, pics of my wrecked vehicle, tow truck reciepts, etc.? (4) am I doomed due to the fact that I racked up on tardies early in the game? (5) should I dispute individual tardies even if I don't have much evidence to prove my point? (6) should I simply focus on one attribute of my case, or should I go into defense mode and arm myself as much as possible on every argument listed above?
Obviously I'm confused and need help, because with all the documentation my employer has provided the DOL of my flaws, versus my lack of evidence to present, this thing feels one-sided (and not in my favor). I only see a few inconsistencies about the statements that HR provided the DOL, and the statements that my manager forwarded to HR to present to DOL. [HR's says that there was no mention of termination and I completely resigned voluntarily, while my manager admits to briefly mentioning her request to HR for my termination (which according to her was sent, but was not yet officially approved)]. Her mentioning this very fact in addition to her demeanor during our private conversation on my last day at work ultimately lead to my decision to take her up on her invite to "leave now". Otherwise, I would've never willingly quit my job.
Do I even stand a chance of coming out of this appeal alive?!
My uncertainty is which battle do I fight....some, all or one? The truth about the incident is that yes, during the earlier stages of my employment, I was tardy quite a few times (they all weren't my fault as there were some last minute schedule changes that should've been vocalized with more than a day's notice). However, tardies did occur quite a bit in my first 90 days of employment. I received one written warning involving all incidents and informed my manager that I share a vehicle, we had some issues with that vehicle, and public transportation was not in my area. I did make significant improvements regarding attendance following the counseling. After that counseling, there were three distinct incidents spread out over the course of the next 3 months involving inclement weather, two funerals and a car accident that collectively led to my day of termination (all legitimate incidents, and in that respective order of occurrence).
That final gloomy day I arrived to work and made a few procedural errors, as I was not too familiar with opening procedures (it wasn't common practice for me to open). The only two people in the building were me and my manager, who approached me to state that she had had enough (in so many words). According to her: my next scheduled workday, pending HR's approval, would ultimately be my last, so I could wait til then, or "I could leave now." (Paraphrasing, but that was the jist of that convo). I took her up on her offer to "leave now". Never once did I mention my transportation being a present issue, even though my manager and I both had conversations about my transportation being a reason for several of my tardies in the past. She mentioned to me in that moment, that this was all about the day of my accident (my last occurrence) since the funeral (the occurrence prior to my accident) had exhausted my PTO and "you knew you didn't have any time left to call in."
In my book, that ultimatum of "leave now or wait til tomorrow when I hear from HR" is quite similar to being told "don't bother coming in to work tomorrow" (as I've been told by my first boss ever in life as a phrase of termination). So I told DOL I was fired for my 3 "uncontrollable absences" without warning.
With this series of events, I am left with multiple questions: (1) Was I, by definition, "fired"? (2) should I focus on the argument of fired-versus-resignation in my preparation for this appeal? (3) should I supply evidence of the absences such as obituaries, pics of my wrecked vehicle, tow truck reciepts, etc.? (4) am I doomed due to the fact that I racked up on tardies early in the game? (5) should I dispute individual tardies even if I don't have much evidence to prove my point? (6) should I simply focus on one attribute of my case, or should I go into defense mode and arm myself as much as possible on every argument listed above?
Obviously I'm confused and need help, because with all the documentation my employer has provided the DOL of my flaws, versus my lack of evidence to present, this thing feels one-sided (and not in my favor). I only see a few inconsistencies about the statements that HR provided the DOL, and the statements that my manager forwarded to HR to present to DOL. [HR's says that there was no mention of termination and I completely resigned voluntarily, while my manager admits to briefly mentioning her request to HR for my termination (which according to her was sent, but was not yet officially approved)]. Her mentioning this very fact in addition to her demeanor during our private conversation on my last day at work ultimately lead to my decision to take her up on her invite to "leave now". Otherwise, I would've never willingly quit my job.
Do I even stand a chance of coming out of this appeal alive?!