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workinggal

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What is the name of your state? NJ

Hi guys, you might remember me from my last post when my husband had an issue with his ex not coming to the door personally to hand over their child for visitation. Well I have kinda a personal question to ask. I'm a little ticked at the fact that my husband for the past couple of days pulled two back to back untimely cancellations on the ex . He will cancel 10-15min prior to his scheduled visits. I was angry because I felt that he was letting what his ex do affect him. I take that personal because that tells me he might still have some unfinished feelings toward her or something. My husband states to me that if he cancels she'll then be stuck in the house with their child and then can't go anywhere. he claims everytime he pick up his child she let her sister do the exchange but yet she's headed out the door to do whatever. This behavior from my husband is bothering me. Now the ex wants to go back to court to modify visitation because my husband has cancelled a few times, well actually he's been cancelling for the past two weeks.

Any advice would be great to give my husband:)
You ladies are wonderful!
 


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Just Blue

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workinggal said:
What is the name of your state? NJ

Hi guys, you might remember me from my last post when my husband had an issue with his ex not coming to the door personally to hand over their child for visitation. Well I have kinda a personal question to ask. I'm a little ticked at the fact that my husband for the past couple of days pulled two back to back untimely cancellations on the ex . He will cancel 10-15min prior to his scheduled visits. I was angry because I felt that he was letting what his ex do affect him. I take that personal because that tells me he might still have some unfinished feelings toward her or something. My husband states to me that if he cancels she'll then be stuck in the house with their child and then can't go anywhere. he claims everytime he pick up his child she let her sister do the exchange but yet she's headed out the door to do whatever. This behavior from my husband is bothering me. Now the ex wants to go back to court to modify visitation because my husband has cancelled a few times, well actually he's been cancelling for the past two weeks.

Any advice would be great to give my husband:)
You ladies are wonderful!
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I have no advice for your jerk of a husband. My advice is for you....File for a divorce. Now. Before you get pregnant.
 
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CourtClerk

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workinggal said:
it's too late , I'm currently pregnant now...Not planned at all
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I'm so sorry for both you and your future child. Pay close attention to how he's treating her. Be very prepared to be his puppy because when you go against him, he will be treating you the very same way.
 
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CLBKLCDTB

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workinggal said:
What is the name of your state? NJ

Hi guys, you might remember me from my last post when my husband had an issue with his ex not coming to the door personally to hand over their child for visitation. Well I have kinda a personal question to ask. I'm a little ticked at the fact that my husband for the past couple of days pulled two back to back untimely cancellations on the ex . He will cancel 10-15min prior to his scheduled visits. I was angry because I felt that he was letting what his ex do affect him. I take that personal because that tells me he might still have some unfinished feelings toward her or something. My husband states to me that if he cancels she'll then be stuck in the house with their child and then can't go anywhere. he claims everytime he pick up his child she let her sister do the exchange but yet she's headed out the door to do whatever. This behavior from my husband is bothering me. Now the ex wants to go back to court to modify visitation because my husband has cancelled a few times, well actually he's been cancelling for the past two weeks.

Any advice would be great to give my husband:)
You ladies are wonderful!
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First of all, when dad has the children, Mom can do whatever she wants with her time. Your husband can not controll his ex's life:rolleyes: (If it were me I would be more upset at such controll issues than worried about his feelings for her.).

Second, he is only using and hurting his children by actng this way.

Tell him to grow up! :mad:

I serious hope you think twice before having children with this man......::eek:
 
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TinkerBelleLuvr

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What advice would I give your husband?

GROW UP already. The person who is getting hurt in all this is the CHILD. Children do look forward to seeing their other parent. When that parent starts to disappoint them on a regular basis, that will affect their future relationship.
 
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CLBKLCDTB

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workinggal said:
amazing he's not that way with me and I hope things get better when I deliver our child
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Of course he's not:rolleyes:

Your differant...your special....He loves you more....:rolleyes:

WAKE UP!!! :eek:

I hope you are prepared to deal with all the emotional stress that is going to come from this man re: his ex and his first born children. On top of being treated like crap.
When we see you here in the future asking for divorce advice, I will remind you that you said he treats you different. :rolleyes:

Take a good look at his ex and what she goes through...it just may be you one day.

I feel so bad for these kids**************
 
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