Ex accused of sexual assualt to a child

[WAmom]

I agree with xylene!! My son and him dont have a great relationship to begin with (he abandoned my son for four years--my son is seven--and my son complains when he has to go to his house). So going for over a month without seeing his dad, I dont think will be a bother to him.

 

[fairisfair]

I agree with xylene!! My son and him dont have a great relationship to begin with (he abandoned my son for four years--my son is seven--and my son complains when he has to go to his house). So going for over a month without seeing his dad, I dont think will be a bother to him.

of course you do, after all he is saying what you WANT to hear.

Nice to know that parents are expendable. Perhaps someday he will find you to be the same.

Funny, no comment about:

I am terrified for my sons safety
There are physical signs of abuse
My son is displaying classic symptoms of an abused child.

Just my son can do without seeing him and they don't have a great relationship anyway.

Whatever.

 

[WAmom]

I think I've already stated that I am concerned about my sons welfare that's my whole purpose of posting this; to find out what I can do to protect my son. I was merely responding to xylene's post.

I am terrified that something has happened to my son or that my son witnessed some of the allegations, I didnt think my feelings were in question here or that I needed to justify all of the horrific feelings that I am having. But for your pleasure here is a list of my feelings:
Horrified
Terrified
Angry
Scared
Repulsed
Pissed off
Sad

Please, fairisfair, let me know if I left out any feelings I should be having!

 

[xylene]

I am terrified for my sons safety

She should avoid to be terrified in front of the child. You do not have to be alarmist to be proactive.

There are physical signs of abuse
My son is displaying classic symptoms of an abused child.

Child hopefully does NOT have these, and the goal of isolating the children from, (or at the minimum maintaining a controlled environment with) the parent under sex abuse allegations is to prevent any abuse.

 

[fairisfair]

She should avoid to be terrified in front of the child. You do not have to be alarmist to be proactive.



Child hopefully does NOT have these, and the goal of isolating the children from, (or at the minimum maintaining a controlled environment with) the parent under sex abuse allegations is to prevent any abuse.

Oh for God's sake. That was hardly the point. But ya know what. You and mommy seem to have this thread all under control.

you dont' need anyone else here.

adieu!!

 

[WAmom]

That was hardly the point.

Thank you fairisfair for realizing what the point was... Finding out how to protect my son and at the moment not caring about my ex's or aka "The Accused" feelings.