It is the mother if his child. You have NO place in that relationship. If you can't handle that as the fact it is, you shouldn't be involved with a man who has children. He and his EX will and should be have a relationship for the rest of their lives. As a wife, it would be your business who your DH has a sexual relationship with but he is an adult and can be friends with anyone he chooses. If you continue to act like such a controlling psycho, you will lose him no matter what. People can't live like that too long.
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It is the mother if his child. You have NO place in that relationship. If you can't handle that as the fact it is, you shouldn't be involved with a man who has children. He and his EX will and should be have a relationship for the rest of their lives. As a wife, it would be your business who your DH has a sexual relationship with but he is an adult and can be friends with anyone he chooses. If you continue to act like such a controlling psycho, you will lose him no matter what. People can't live like that too long.
stealth2
Under the Radar Member
If this is a problem to you, you're not as secure as you claim. Leave it to Mom and Dad to figure out how communication works best for them.
Proserpina
Senior Member
Actually it's his business.
Or are you going to dictate who he is "allowed" to associate with?
Always healthy for a relationship, that.
Proserpina
Senior Member
Actually it's his business.
Or are you going to dictate who he is "allowed" to associate with?
Always healthy for a relationship, that is. Why do you feel so threatened?
loves thorn
Junior Member
Did you ever think that facebook would be a good way of the two of them sharing pictures of their child?
stepmom4ever
Member
I'm not threaten, I have the man.... I just dont see the need to do that when there's text messaging that she can send him and they can exchange picture messaging and then there's regular email that they can do the same thing with. I just dont see the need , that's all
futuredust
Senior Member
Why don't you ask him yourself, instead of a bunch of strangers.
You really need to get a grip, secure my arse.
You really need to get a grip, secure my arse.
You don't see the "need"? Really, Why on earth is it even an issue for you. Why should it even matter to you HOW they communicate? While she could send a picture text, why does she "need" to? What about pictures that are not taken with a phone? Many people actually use cameras to take pictures. She can upload all the pictures at one time to one place and everyone can see them there. I just can't even understand why you would even be questioning this. Since you seem to realize that they do communicate with each other, why do you feel the need to micro-manage the method of communication? Again it really has nothing to do with you.
Proserpina
Senior Member
It's somehow bad for two parents to be more than civil towards one another and actually be friends, when they have a child together? Would you prefer animosity? Is that better for the child?
It matters not whether you see the need or not - and it really isn't any of your business.
Ohiogal
Queen Bee
Read her past threads. This is the one who showed up at the hospital when her husband's girlfriend had her baby. She then started making demands on the mother and even posted the mother's information on here. Needless to say she has proven how insecure she is time and again. Her hubby doesn't work. He doesn't pay child support. He cheated on her at least once. He has a baby with another woman. And this individual believes she has rights as a stepparent to make demands regarding the child.
Proserpina
Senior Member
Read her past threads. This is the one who showed up at the hospital when her husband's girlfriend had her baby. She then started making demands on the mother and even posted the mother's information on here. Needless to say she has proven how insecure she is time and again. Her hubby doesn't work. He doesn't pay child support. He cheated on her at least once. He has a baby with another woman. And this individual believes she has rights as a stepparent to make demands regarding the child.
That still - no matter how many times I read it - just blows me away.
I just cannot comprehend why anyone would think such a thing would even be acceptable, let alone a good idea.
And I'm still wondering how the parents being friends is somehow bad for the child.
Ohiogal
Queen Bee
This is NOT about the child. It never is. This is about stepmom4ever needing her ego stroked and told how lucky HE is that she has stuck by her man even though he cheated and got another woman pregnant during a "break" and how he needs to pay for it for the rest of his life and she deserves puppy dogs and bunnies for her troubles because NO ONE should ever be able to have a relationship with her man without HER permission and her interference -- *cough* -- I mean her help.
stepmom4ever
Member
First off, when my husband received the call form the mother that she was giving birth to his child MY HUSBAND TOLD ME TO COME WITH HIM!!
Proserpina
Senior Member
And it didn't occur to you that this would be inappropriate?
That just perhaps - just maybe - this woman giving birth would not want you there? Seriously? This never occurred to you? You just did whatever he told you to do without a second thought?
If your husband told you to fling yourself in front of a train would you do that too?
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