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Hello, I am hopeful someone could give me some advice on this situation. My parents are elderly and we built a home for them and my family (husband and 2 children). They have an in-law suite/apartment attached to the main house. Prior to setting up our mortgage, we talked about life estates with our lawyer. In the event that my parents end up in a nursing home, we wanted to protect the home from medicaid (if it came to that). My mother does have some health considerations and though managed well now, may become issues down the road. Our lawyer advised setting this up after closing, reason being banks don't like life estates and will likely not approve our mortgage. My parents co-signed for the loan and all four our names are on the deed. We went back to the lawyer in December, who talked with my parents, my husband, and I about all the details of a life estate. Months go by (I was told it would only be a matter of weeks). When I finally got a hold of our lawyer, he said they had been overburdened with closings and would have the life estate in 10 days to sign. Another couple of months go by. Finally I reach the lawyer and he reports that he is advising against the life estate. He states that my particular lender has been very stringent with loans (pulling loans out from people the day before closing, and other issues) over closings in the past several months in particular. He worries they will find out about the life estate and call the loan. He admitted it had never happened before, but in the current climate, this is why he hasn't moved forward. His recommendation was to ask the banks permission (paying their legal department $200), and if they say no (which is a possibility, given their current disposition) look for a lender who would be okay with a life estate and refinance. Then he told us that no big bank would probably take it, and we would have to look into smaller banks.
My first qualm in that he should have told us this months ago, and had strung us along for quite some time. The second is I don't know if his concern is valid or not. We called a contact all the bank who unofficially told us he had heard them deny loans to people with life estates but not call on already established loans. Would a bank really kick out 2 elderly parents and a family of four for getting a life estate? My lawyer also said our situation is unique and we have a a chance in the fact that we are all living the house and are on the deed, which is different from a typical situation. I guess the choice is, go the safe route and run the risk of being denied, or move forward without the banks knowledge. I am concerned about then having to find a bank who would take the loan (if we refinanced after being denied) since that seems to be another issue. We are trying to push this along as quickly as possible because so much time had already been wasted, and medicaid has a 5 year look back should it come to that.
Hello, I am hopeful someone could give me some advice on this situation. My parents are elderly and we built a home for them and my family (husband and 2 children). They have an in-law suite/apartment attached to the main house. Prior to setting up our mortgage, we talked about life estates with our lawyer. In the event that my parents end up in a nursing home, we wanted to protect the home from medicaid (if it came to that). My mother does have some health considerations and though managed well now, may become issues down the road. Our lawyer advised setting this up after closing, reason being banks don't like life estates and will likely not approve our mortgage. My parents co-signed for the loan and all four our names are on the deed. We went back to the lawyer in December, who talked with my parents, my husband, and I about all the details of a life estate. Months go by (I was told it would only be a matter of weeks). When I finally got a hold of our lawyer, he said they had been overburdened with closings and would have the life estate in 10 days to sign. Another couple of months go by. Finally I reach the lawyer and he reports that he is advising against the life estate. He states that my particular lender has been very stringent with loans (pulling loans out from people the day before closing, and other issues) over closings in the past several months in particular. He worries they will find out about the life estate and call the loan. He admitted it had never happened before, but in the current climate, this is why he hasn't moved forward. His recommendation was to ask the banks permission (paying their legal department $200), and if they say no (which is a possibility, given their current disposition) look for a lender who would be okay with a life estate and refinance. Then he told us that no big bank would probably take it, and we would have to look into smaller banks.
My first qualm in that he should have told us this months ago, and had strung us along for quite some time. The second is I don't know if his concern is valid or not. We called a contact all the bank who unofficially told us he had heard them deny loans to people with life estates but not call on already established loans. Would a bank really kick out 2 elderly parents and a family of four for getting a life estate? My lawyer also said our situation is unique and we have a a chance in the fact that we are all living the house and are on the deed, which is different from a typical situation. I guess the choice is, go the safe route and run the risk of being denied, or move forward without the banks knowledge. I am concerned about then having to find a bank who would take the loan (if we refinanced after being denied) since that seems to be another issue. We are trying to push this along as quickly as possible because so much time had already been wasted, and medicaid has a 5 year look back should it come to that.