Recent content by AnonymousR

No, the mother isn't making me pay child support. She wants to just tell me what the baby needs and I'll get it for her all the time, which is fair I guess. It shouldn't cost as much as the courts would make me pay, but I know my babys mother wouldn't use it all on my baby.. It was her idea...

Well the judge just said, ok thats it.. and she gave us a re-worked Mediation agreement paper (Our holidays stay the same.. as we sorted those out in mediation) But it added more time for me.. (last page) No one told either of us to get any other papers, they said we could go .. :confused...

anyone have a clue? btw, my daughter is asleep on my lap :) im in heaven.

How about the Legal custody?? I was seeking joint and she was seeking sole..

Well I'm back. I had to put up a fight, I let the judge know I felt pressured into agree'ing at mediation, and she let me tell my story. I basically told her I was ignorant to the law and didn't know I had some power i here, I thought she had all the power because she filed. I explained my...

She took her with her! But the mediator said .. we can change our minds though. Its far too little for me to see her. I only agree'd cause I felt pressured into it, cause she lowballed me so much at first. There was no hostility until she came out with trying to let me see my baby 2 hours a...

I'm not going to amuse a judge, I'm going to get my daughter. I would be fine with 50/50, she wants 98/2. So I'm out to get her now. Anyone else have some real advice?

What is the name of your state? California I posted before that I thought this was going to be over before it started, but it seems the ex-gf is going through with it. I'm ready to put up the fight of my life now. We went to mediation and she came out with some bull**** visitation schedule...

What is the name of your state? California My ex is taking me in for custody mediation on friday, she tells me on the phone she DOES NOT want to collect child support from me, and will let them know. Question is: Will they require it be paid? She doens't want to receive it, she said she put...

Just keeping an update here.. I talked to her today but not for too long, not long enough to get to convince her of anything (Shes coughing and sneezing, not feeling too well).. we'll try again tomorrow and I'll update this at that time :). If theres anything anyone could add.. by all means...

Yeah its mediation first.. you're right. We have the first mediation date, in 2 weeks. Hopefully I can avoid it all by doing what casa said.. and going down there with my ex-gf and we can drop the custody case.

To answer your question about hasty decision, yes! I admit I messed up in kicking her out.. then we ignored each other for 1 day. After the 2nd night of her sleeping at another house (A cousin of hers) she filed for the custody. I know she was just upset at me kicking her out, which is...

Yeah I am positive the relationship is not over. Shes not, at this very moment, saying shes coming back to me right away.. but it is going to happen. (She tells everything to a close friend of mine, a girl.. her best friend) OK, I got what I was looking for !! Go see the Family Law...

OK I understand now.. another question. Lets say we go to court, we both agree on the parenting schedule and its set in paper. Now lets say 3-6 months down the line she finally gets back with me and moves back in with me. What are our options there? We would most likely be living together...

OK, so you're basically saying.. theres no way to just get it done without paperwork. You said 1) We can agree in court and have it set in the court. 2) We can agree and get our own legal papers from the courts and both sign them. So what are our options, again.. i'm slow so bare with me...