Recent content by beenthere30

What is the name of your state?SC I am going to be flying to visit my family in California. I was wondering if I would need a letter from their father for this flight? I have sole custody and he lives in Missouri so getting a letter will be impossible as my flight is on thursday! Do I need to...

No she does not loose custody/visitation. Support is completly seperate. And yes you have to follow your court order which states you have to mutually agree that you can move. Unless of course you can get the courts to give you permission which is difficult if bm does not want you to move...

Thank you for the responses! Yes her ex boyfriend lives only 10 miles away so joint custody wouldn't be an issue do to location. And she has a visitation plan with her ex husband but a couple of months ago he moved 1000 miles away so visitation with his two kids is few and far between. I am...

I used to work for an electric company quite a few years ago and I don't know if the rules are still the same but at that time if there was a child with a disability that required the use of utilities then the UTILITY company couldnt turn them off without a court order but you could get them out...

And she could have not gotten it. You can't beat yourself up for that. Diabetes is a disease yes but it is one that they can live long lives with if treated correctly. It's not a curse bestowed on the child. Has your Dr said anything about taking her off lantis? That is what my son was on and...

Oh and if you ever need anyone to talk to who is in the same situation and knows what you are going through you can email me at bttyboopa@aol.com. But DONT blame yourself it is not your fault. In my son's case it was a complete surprise no family member on either side had it. My son is the most...

Just remember that sometimes an early diagnosis can be a blessing in disguise. In time you will notice the slight changes that may happen with her. Maybe she is starting to look more tired or was running and playing and now just being sluggish. At her young age though I no it is hard. Even at...

Yes Casa we got that. But since the posters question was irrelevant on this US site and the conversation turned to this subject we debated it. One of the great advantages of living in the US. Freedom of speach and opinion :D

Lady, The only person getting Pi$$y here is you. I made my argument being on BOTH parents supporting the children if you failed to mention that you were supporting the children by way of your current husband that is your own fault and could have been said early on. From the get go I stated that...

It has nothing to do with being perfect. It has to do with wanting my children to be taking care of and having the drive and determination to do so. I worked my butt off to accomplish what I have for the sake of my children. That is something EVERY mother should do. As for the other poster that...

As the poster stated each child with diabetes is different my son was diagnosed at age 2 and yes we did have to change his insulin doses almost daily based on blood sugar levels and carb intake. When first diagnose there blood sugars are all over the place. I know it is hard and emotionally...

Oh please I found work in a small town of under 10,000 people. If daycare is too expensive start one at home or go to work for one so you don't have to pay as much for daycare. Either way I was stating making the bio-dad soley resposible for the children is bogus! I stick by that statement. You...

Anyone? Just bumping it up so that I get a response. :D

oh and no one said you were a bad mom or that your children were spoiled brats or that diabetes was the same. So don't get so defensive.

No one said that your daughters diabetes was the same. When a child is newly diagnosed yes you have to change their insulin daily. I know that. I also know that when looking for a job I made sure I found one that was flexible to me being able to leave to give my son his injections and such. If...