Recent content by fammy69

well first u need to attend mediation and try to resolve those issues(custody)with a mediator,some judges like 50/50, others don't, second, in CA, child support is based through the disometer(spelling?)a complicated computer program. i am not sure about what u mean by "claiming", like on taxes...

my understanding is that if u have been to mediation that you can go to the mediators office, set up a date, contact the other party about what the date is and thats it. however, the other party has to confirm with the mediators office that they will be present. thats how it was done in my...

could be devastating due to the fact that ur the father and the legal system generally favors the mother, follow the visitation orders

i don't think a 730 evaluation is realistic for this family, it is very expensive, about 10 grand, there are lawyers that work on a sliding scale, or u can join a fathers rights advocacy group and they can help, usually to join though they require a "donation"

i agree with u, i F..... up. i am in AA, for 13 days now, no alcohol, i attend counseling weekly. i have visitation with my son just no overnites and i cannot transport him. i consider myself lucky, and my relationship with my son has always and will always be the priority. so i say this...

stealth, i am not flaming you, i agree, very bad decision of mine. i accept the consequences, its frustrating, thats all i am saying, i don't need to be harrassed here, by a bunch of bitter women, oh, sorry about some of my spelling, i am not as perfect as most of you :)

sweetheart, first of all u clarly have some emotional baggage that needs to be dealt with, to attack and belittle a father(who by the way is the Petitioner and has joint legal/physical custody) is completely inappropriate. u may make ur points but don't through ur own issues into the mix. i...

dude, get off the superbowl, it was not the superbowl that i was drinking at it was the pittsburg vs. jets two weeks prior. i am not saying that i should not be drinking. i am making every effort not to and admitting my faults. what i am asking is how can a judge interviene like that and make...

no i did not drink during the super bowl, in the last 31 days i have had two glasses of wine, but in AA if u drink u start over

What is the name of your state? california see if you can follow, a little history: went to drug treatment at 20 for drugs, pot, coke, acid, tried it all. been clean for over 15 years. 1 month ago i had some drinks while watching a football game, and drove home with my son, Kristan(who i have...