Recent content by Kevmar44

My son has asked me not to call because the last time this happened his dad grounded him when he got to his house for telling him that he didn't want to go to his house! Now how do I handle that one?

I said that it was 6 every other Friday and Sunday and what ever the paperwork states for the Holidays. Which in my case was 9pm. I didn't just pick a time out of the blue and tell him that is when he could come pick him up! It's my ex that does that kind of stuff. I follow the paperwork.

I tried to do those things 3 years ago when this all started and he would have none of it. I tried to have us meet with a priest for counseling and as luck would have it his gf worked as a janitor for the church so he made up some lame excuse as to why he couldn't help us. Like I said he...

I already know what the orders state. I HAD to have them put in because my ex likes to play these kind of games. One summer he went the entire summer without seeing his own son simply because he refused to drive out to my house and couldn't bully me into delivering him to him. My point is...

To Stealth, first I left a message at 11:45 am telling him that pick up was at 9 not 6 and left the cell phone number he could reach us at and let him know we were not staying at our house. When we listened to our messages at 6 and he said he was running late I called and he answered his phone...

Ok, you can live with my ex for 6 months and have to deal with his BS and then you can tell me how you all would have handled this differently! His own family deals with me to see our son because he won't let them see him unless they do things his way. He's the manipulative jerk, not me. So...

But yet his cell phone worked just fine to call my house and leave messages. What am I missing here? This was just yet another game that my ex decided to play to make me look like the bad guy because I didn't sit in my driveway for an hour waiting for him to show up! I would have waited had...

He had a cell phone number to reach me at!!!! Why isn't it HIS responsibility to call that number? He called my HOME phone 3 times AFTER he was told we weren't there and to reach us on my husbands cell phone! And like I stated before I know the times to pick up my son and if it means I have...

He wasn't late because of the roads, I found out he had been somewhere else and didn't leave on time! Personally if I knew the road were bad I would have left with PLENTY of time to pick up my son. And he should have called my husbands cell phone to let us know he was running late because he...

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Ohio This past Christmas my ex was supposed to pick our son up on Christmas Eve at 9pm. We had a terrible ice storm and lost power 2 days before and were not staying at our house so I was planning on being at our house at 9 for the...

My point exactly!! There HAS to be some "clause" in every state that covers situations like that or the fact that the other party knows the child takes medication every day and that there will be a prescription filled every month! In my case I've let my ex know w/in 30 days and he just blows...

I'm from Ohio and there is nothing that I have been able to find in any paperwork that states 30 days. And in some cases when insurance is involved, it is next to impossible to send notice w/in 30 days.

I'm curious...why do you think co-pays should be covered under CS? It's a medical expense. It's probably the ONLY medical expense you have to pay if it is just a doctors visit or a pharmacy bill, right? Granted your ex should have been keeping you current on them, not waiting 5 years, but you...

Depends on how much money you are talking about. Is it worth the cost of an attorney or do you plan to go to court without one?

I know I joined this thread way late but want to add my story. My idiot ex is not allowed to take our son to the doctor for so much as a hiccup without my knowledge because for some reason the jerk thought it was a good idea to take him to a new doctor, lied to him about my son already having a...