Recent content by MBMom

I completely understand what you're saying, and this is not a short visit, but about 3 1/2 weeks. My son goes to a year-round school, so each of his visits (except for summer which is longer) are about the same amount of time. This is the first visitation situation, and there's already a problem.

What is the name of your state? Oklahoma/California I just have a simple question regarding visitation from state to state. When the Judge made gave his decision regarding custody, he stated that when our son goes fror visitation with his dad, it needs to be within a day or two of him getting...

What is the name of your state? CA Yesterday morning as I was pulling out of my son's school I rear ended a Volvo. The car was pulling out right onto the street from the school parking lot, but as I looking out left to see if any more cars were coming, the car in front of me slammed on their...

No advice to offer. Just wanted to say sorry to hear the way things are going. The woman sounds like she has some issues. I understand it could be tough, but he should not give up on that little boy. One day when the boy is older, he will probably realize what his mom is doing, but one...

Well, it took a lot of explaining, but it seems as though NCP and attorney are finaling understanding and have admitted their mistake. I swear, I didn't realize just figuring out the final court order, shared parenting plan and child support was so difficult.

I know you're trying to find out informaiton regarding cs, but I can't stop thinking about the fact that he basically, according to what you've stated, "kidnapped" your daugher with a fake order and gotten away with it? You're asking questions regarding child support, yet shouldn't the bigger...

What is the name of your state? Oklahoma My custody case has finally ended (or at least let's hope), but now ncp is claiming after voluntarily dragging me through one year of court hell that he can't afford to pay cs because his attorney bills are so high. Before feeling sorry for him, let me...

VeronicaGia, I understand your point regarding separating the costs if there were more children. However, ncp is not married nor does he have any other children. He has already stated that he and son are only ones covered on his policy. However, he is claiming that the amount being deducted...

What is the name of your state? Oklahoma This may be different in other states, but I was wondering if someone could answer this question for me. When cs if being calculated, and a health care premium is being added in for the child which one of the parents pays, should the premium be the...

Where does it state this law regarding our situation that you are referring to? I would like to show my husband. When I try to explain this to him, it only makes him mad, but maybe if he actually saw something himself that would make it more real (instead of me just telling him).

Thanks for finding out for me,cbg. The only reason I guess I would question this is because it specifically states in my husband's handbook he was given when he was enrolling, that he would be able to make changes during spouse'e open enrollment. I know you probably can't answer to that since...

What is the name of your state? CA My husband is currently employed with a large company (also a union if that counts) who he currently has health insurance (HMO) through. I am employed for a company with less than 50 employees who I also have insurance (PPO) coverage through. I enrolled...

I'm going to have to agree also with snodderly. The second you mentioned not having your kids overnight for THREE months, I couldn't focus on anything else you said. Short version or not...just like snodderly said, "ain't no man worth a minute of my time with my children."

What is the name of your state? Oklahoma A couple questions: Is there a certain percentage that's used when figuring the amount for child support in Oklahoma? And since I live in California, but OKlahoma has jurisdiction, if I had to pay child support, would they go by Oklahoma child...

So your boyfriend has one daughter in Arkansas with one woman in Oklahoma and another in Missouri with another woman?