Recent content by mushu1

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California I reside in Ca and was working for a CA employer in the entertainment industry. The job took us to MA for part of the time. SDI was withheld from each check while we were working in CA but not for each week worked in MA. The address...

Thank you for the site links. I had gotten the rootsweb site for the death certificate this morning from the journalist friend (because I wanted to confirm for myself that she was looking at the correct person) but the marriage site will be very helpful. Sorry about the miscommunication. I...

Whats the IAAL list? Is that bad? I get your implication that I have been lying but this is not the case. I have been truthful about everything. If you must have clarification: I had tried to look for him through old friends, etc for a few weeks. That went nowhere, so then I posted to...

Not innocent at all; fully accountable as Ive said before. Yes, he knows. I told him a few weeks ago when I actually remembered and started researching the whole thing. I did mention the UK thing in my first letter which several replies have referenced since. I listed Ca as the place...

Man, some of you guys are harsh! I suppose you must tell it like it is, and I do appreciate the advice. Look, I should have thought about it; I didnt. When the lawyer told me, so many years ago, that the marriage was invalid and could be annulled, to my naive (yes, if you wish read stupid...

I agree and that was my worry. Frankly, Id be more than willing to 'face the music' which is why I saw the attorney lo those many years ago. I know that he was kicked out of the USMC for going AWOL twice (because this happened within 6 months of the 'marriage' in question) and so wouldnt have...

Okay, got it. So basically, if you just lay low and live your life it is unlikely just to pop up out of nowhere, but there are a bazillion unforseen mishaps that might bring it to light, right? I just noticed people asking about the validity of their marriage who have been thinking they were...

What is the name of your state?Ca I am reading a LOT of questions having to do with people getting 're'married before another divorce is final. Most of these have to do with commonlaw marriages (usually where the two parties disagree about the existence of a first marriage). The answer is...

He has a very common name and I wouldn't even know what state to search for him in. I really don't want a 'divorce' since it was never a real marriage anyway. Is there a way to get it annulled? What if he is already married? Will that affect anything? Since nothing has ever been filed...

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?CA When I was a stupid 18 year old (about 14years ago) I did a 'quicke' marriage to a boyfriend who was in the Marine corps so that he could get off base housing. He had told me that a lot of his friends in the corps 'married' a...