Recent content by purdylucky

thank you for your words. they really do help to reassure me. :)

The only thing is that since he rolled, there is no arrest, no papertrail, etc. All I have is the word of the investigating officer, and local knowledge through the local PD. I have spoken with the officer, and he has said that he can talk to my atty, and perhaps give a statement of sorts w/o...

What is the name of your state?ak I have posted before and briefly stated what has been going on. This relates to my case and it is something that I don't understand or know what to do about it. my ex had a search and seizure done on his home, and he openly admitted to the troopers that he...

Please forgive me, I now have the tendency to react very defensivly. I am glad that someone with an objective point of view has been able to render their opinion. I wish that I was able to get advice similiar to the above when it was pertinent to me and my case. Best of luck to you and hope...

With drug accusations, a UA could clear that up. I have found from experience, that if one lies, they continue to lie and eventually slip somewhere. All you can do is tell you attorney, or next time if it happens again, call the authorities to report it. Sorry if I am not more help. I hate...

Keep in mind that this is only my opinion....you handled it correctly, if he were to get pulled over with the items in the car he could face serious charges above and beyond simple traffic tickets and he needs to know this. Also, protective services could not only lay blame with him for having...

thank you so much... :)

if he were clean and sober, I would have no problem letting them see their biological father.

My case is filed in Anchorage. I would love his info. thanks :)

when he filed for contempt, he asked the court to have me pay for his attorney fees. When I was ticketed for failure to permit visitation, rather than ask for amended visitation schedules, he wanted me fined. He very easily could have gotten a writ of assistance, but never has. He files new...

the counselor that they were seeing until she passed away, said that they have the right to interject their opinion or it could be considered a form of child abuse. As to getting the arrest records, since he rolled on someone else to avoid prosecution, the records are kept confidential...

hand held voice recorder. thanks for the information :)

I can understand what you are saying, however, in the last eight months, he has made NO contact in any way shape or form. When he did call, I gave the phone to the boys, when he would come over I would let the boys talk to him to voice their wishes. He has come to the city that we live several...

What is the name of your state?ak on the few occasions that my ex showed up, he often had a hand held recorder. I voiced my objections telling him that as long as he chose to record, I did not have to talk to him. Now I know that most recordings are not admissable, but since I object, can he...

thank you. I have always made sure that the boys have come first. They are happy healty boys. They are confident, loving and very giving. They are pulling straight a's in school and are very involved in many community events. As always, I say that it's about them and what they want and/or...