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What is the name of your state? CA An ex-girlfriend called me last year and told me we have a now-12 year old daughter and the girl wnated to know more about me. We have since talked, met and have established a relationship even though the girl and her mom live in Utah. The mom has gone...

What is the name of your state? CA I won't rehash everything that I wrote about here 2 weeks ago (I imagine you can search for it) and things are progressing but I have a general question... If 2 consenting adults conceive a child and the woman's pregnancy (I was told she had a miscarriage)...

Reyna, I appreciate the advice and the apology...obviously it is an emotional issue. And to others out there, I appreciate your advice and comforting words...I really do want to do what is right...for me, for my family and for the girl. You know, when I talked to my ex-gf about things in our...

Hi all, I appreciate the responses and discussion so far...well, most of it anyways. Just to clarify, I am now 43, married 8+ years and my kids are 5 1/2 and 15 months, so when this happened 12 years ago, I was not an irresponsible young kid by any stretch. I had a great job, owned my own home...

I don't know anything about the guy that she is divorcing other than they were married in 1996 (when the girl was 2 years old), they were separated for 5 years and tried a reconciliation which apparently hasn't worked out, and that he never adopted the girl so I would think he has no legal basis...

What is the name of your state? CA (mom and daughter now live in UT) 12 years ago I dated a girl for six months. Despite trying to be careful, she told me she got pregnant and when it happened she and her family cut off all ties to me (long story) and access from me to her. She told me she had...

What is the name of your state? CA (mom and daughter now live in UT) 12 years ago I dated a girl for six months. Despite trying to be careful, she told me she got pregnant and when it happened she and her family cut off all ties to me (long story) and access from me to her. She told me she had...